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How to Handle Online Dating Burnout
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How to Handle Online Dating Burnout

Online dating isn't easy. It requires dealing with a certain amount of challenges and annoyances, and often requires sustained effort before you meet someone promising. However, when you're faced with too many annoyances and what seems like endless sustained effort, you may come down with a good case of online dating burnout. And when you do, your dating success will decrease. Here are some signs you suffer from online dating burnout:

Was that...? Seeing Someone You Know on an Online Dating Site
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Was that...? Seeing Someone You Know on an Online Dating Site

The other day I had a couple of girlfriends over. We had some wine and laughs and one of my friends pulled up her online dating account to show who had been contacting her (laughs continued). We were scrolling through one of the features where the site suggests people it thinks you may be interested in. A picture of a dark haired, blue-eyed guy that lived about 20 miles away popped up. He looked handsome, normal. But something felt weird, I said, "He looks like Wyatt's friend, the asshole one."

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Online dating doesn't necessarily mean that love is a mouse click away.
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'Data, A Love Story': 6 Things Online Daters Should Know

The memoir 'Data, A Love Story' follows Amy Webb, a single woman who's tired of bad online dates. She gets the idea to pose as her ideal man to get an understanding of how females react to him and learn how to reposition her own profile to gain this type of man's attention. Her efforts work out in the book, but how can we apply this story to online dating in the real world?

Why Women Should Wear Red in Their Profile Picture
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Why Women Should Wear Red in Their Profile Picture

Author and motivational lecturer Dr. Tae Yun Kim wrote of the color red in her book “The First Element: Secrets to Maximizing Your Energy.” “Red stimulates and excites your nerves, pulse rate and blood circulation and lends energy to your entire system," she said. "When you are fatigued, lethargic or sluggish for any reason, red has an energizing influence.”

6 Habits to Stop Now for Online Dating Success
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6 Habits to Stop Now for Online Dating Success

Has it felt like a ghost town lately with very few or no posts or responses on your dating site account? Or, have you had plenty of communication with so-called “matches” who pretty quickly showed themselves to be creeps? You might wonder if online dating is worth the hassle and disappointment. You might also wonder if you’re just unlucky at love and destined to be alone.

Warning Signs For Online Daters
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Warning Signs For Online Daters

Here's a few tips to consider when dating online: •Avoid sharing your real name, email address, place of work, address, phone number or other identifying information while you are emailing or chatting until you are completely comfortable. •Trust your instincts and immediately stop communicating with anyone who makes you feel uncomfortable or apprehensive.

The Verdict On: Can We Can Be Friends
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The Verdict On: Can We Can Be Friends

Confession time again. My delayed tears have been flowing when I finally couldn't repress and deny how it felt. The fact is, my honorary older brothers were adamant, when a guy says he wants to be friends it's not a good thing. My problem is that I told myself I wasn't hurt. When I finally admitted to myself that I was.... floodgates. Had I allowed myself to face my letdown it would not have come to this. By repressing those feelings they got stronger from all the pressure of being stuffed down.

Miss Travel: Would You Travel For A Date?
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Miss Travel: Would You Travel For A Date?

Beyond POF.com, OKCupid, and eHarmony, the dating site Miss Travel is a matchmaking site where the guy pays for everything, including a travel companion. The trick is, the website doesn't do a background check on the men, or the women, and you meet for the first time at the vacation spot. Sure if you want to see the world for free it could work out for you. The odds are that not everyone is looking for love on a site like this. Hence the snickering that it's a cover site for the world's oldest profession .... and not the one where women wear habits.

ONLINE DATING PROFILES TO IGNORE
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ONLINE DATING PROFILES TO IGNORE

I actually thought that pleasant statements really meant something about the person when I went on dating sites. But after a lot of email and phone conversations, and writing Create New Love, I learned my lesson. They had a Pollyanna view of life, or they had their profile written by a professional, or they combined all the positive traits in profiles they read! So I learned to read between the lines. I’m going to show you some lines to “read between” so you can exclude those people now instead of discovering down the road that this really isn’t working. My free podcast covers even more of this. How do you respond when the person seems just so so nice? Be curious about your feelings. One man wrote:

Online Dating - How To Protect Yourself
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Online Dating - How To Protect Yourself

Jess (29) and Damian (29) met via a popular dating website four years ago. Since first connecting online, then dating for several months, they’ve travelled the world and have now set up a life for themselves in a one bedroom flat in Alexandria, Sydney. But their road to real-life romance was not without its challenges.

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The reasons may surprise you.
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Why Dudes Love Online Dating

In a recent study conducted by Harris Interactive for AnastasiaDate.com, a group of 1,000 men were polled on their thoughts on online dating. The men ranged in ages from 35-55. Over half of the men had tried online dating, and of those who tried, over 65 percent had actually met someone through the medium.

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Are you on the same page?
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How To Tell If He's Marriage-Minded

When it comes to online dating, putting yourself out there to meet marriage-minded singles can seem like a lot of work. Just remember, you are making all this effort because you believe you can find true love online, and before long, you will meet that special someone.

Heartbroken By My Digital Footprint
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Heartbroken By My Digital Footprint

I want someone like Hugh. Not Mr. Jackman himself but a man like him. Every time I see an interview of Hugh and his wife it restores my faith that there are good men out there. The devoted kind in a sea of the perpetually non-committal Peter Pan types. Unfortunately, I’ll forever want someone like Hugh, as an idea. I’m fine with that. Any trust I have in someone being sincerely interested in getting to know me died thanks to the Colin Farrell doppelganger.

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Feeling frustrated?
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Why Online Dating Doesn't Work

In the current breed of "old dog" dating sites, there are a lot of users who just "pose and show off" to market themselves, answering questions dishonestly to make themselves seem more desirable. That makes it harder for you to select the singles who are right for you. When examining matches, we should cut out this "noisy data" and focus on the real goal: finding a compatible hook-up, friend, partner, soul mate ... whomever you are searching for. Plus, we should be able to do this quickly, easily and accurately. Don't you agree?

Dump the Bastard, Already!
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Dump the Bastard, Already!

The morning of our second date we met for coffee and took a twelve mile bike ride. It was very difficult getting there at all seeing I had only two hours of sleep and left PJ in my bed with a promise he'd wait for me. While I enjoyed the day in the sun and the exercise, I did note that Dale had a habit of pointing out flaws in people. This was particularly true of women.