The question is, why do some women always attract the crazy men? The answer is you.
Every woman is working with the same pool of men. Say there are four billion men on Planet Earth. This is the pool of men that you have to work with. In this pool, there are going to be gentlemen, pimps, players, hustlers, and psychos. But, it’s the same pool of men. It’s not like the crazy men are coming from outside this pool. The question is, why do some women always attract the crazy men? The answer is you. You can either repel or invite these men into your life. The only reason you attract crazy men is because you talk to them.
Missed calls much? A Dutch woman faces stalking charges after calling her crush 24/7 for 365 days.
A 42-year-old Dutch woman has been charged with stalking after cell phone records showed she called an unidentified guy more than 65,000 times over the course of a year. Worse than that, she's also been charged with not playing it cool.
One wife tells us what it's like to share her husband with an imaginary baseball team.
There we were, checked into one of the most stunning hotels in Vancouver, and my husband had just one thing on his mind—and it had absolutely nothing to do with me. No amount of negligee (or lack thereof) was going to distract him. Guidebook in hand, I headed out to explore the city, while he sat in front of a laptop for the next six hours doing his fantasy baseball draft.
A lifelong boob man comes clean about his breast addiction.
Every time I step outside my front door, I'm subconsciously indexing all the important things I need to be aware of. Cars, buses, cabs, anything that moves and could break my spine? Check. Where I'm going, how to get there, and what time it is? Check. Is that dog poop on the sidewalk? Yes. But the remaining percentage of my brain? It's focusing on breasts. If it's between catching a train and taking an extra 10 seconds to stare at the top half of some woman digging in her purse for her cell phone, I'm missing the train.
It has to end. I must become Spartacus to Breasts' Rome. Here is my plan.
"I love my boyfriend but I'm unsure about our future. How can I tell if I'm in a dead-end relationship?" -Sharon, Kansas
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Tips to air out your brain from a relationship that's dunzo.
Maybe the relationship started off awesome. We don't doubt it. We're sure it traveled on an idyllic path for a hot minute or two, full of butterflies and starry-eyed evenings of dragonfly walks along the beach. We bet it did.
But then it inevitably faltered and you probably stuck around longer than you should have (you did, didn't you?). It was tough, but now you're finally out (rejoice!).But it sort of sucks. All the good memories keep infiltrating your mind like sweet-smelling second-hand smoke. Suddenly your reviled ex is Goody McBoyfriend and you've made The Biggest Mistake Of Your Life. You want back in. Don't do it! Here's 4 tips to help you stay out.
1.) Make A Bad Quality List 2.) Don't Do A Cut And Paste 3.) Write A Bad Emotion List 4.) Wear A Rubber Band Around Your Wrist
No sex, no matter. Sometimes we fall the hardest from unrequited love.
Therese Brochard, an author and blogger who focuses on overcoming depression, recently submitted a piece to Huffington Post titled, 12 Ways To Recover From An Emotional Affair. While Brochard's intention was to help happily married folks get over their crushes, we found the tips would work on just about any unrequited infatuation. After all, we all know the cruel trick our psyche plays once we realize the object of our affection doesn't feel the same way: we just fall harder. So while we're huge proponents of following our heart, here's a crash course in outsmarting the romance novel in your head with our favorite five of Brochard's tips. 1.) Schedule your obsessing. 2.) Replace your crush with something else. 3.) Admit you're lonely. 4.) It's all in your head. 5.) Write it out.
Kris Allen's choice on American Idol is a metaphor for male obsession.
Kris Allen knocked out the song "Ain't No Sunshine" on American Idol. The song is a great metaphor for the tendency for guys to obsess. The songwriter, Bill Withers, was telling a universal truth about melancholia, breakup and obsession.
