It's important to be nice...it will make your relationships better. Here's a little formula to help!
Someone famous once said, "It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice." That's easy to remember when life is good, but it's more important to remember when you're faced with a challenge, especially when that challenge is in your romantic relationship, when the tendency is to shut down or go on the attack. I've tried both of those tactics and I wouldn't recommend them if the relationship is important to you.
There are some good men out there. Believe that, shawty. More man-myths SHATTERED. One-night stands can very easily result in relationships. How to figure out a guy's relationship intentions. Why do men disappear? Why do dudes like girl-on-girl sexy action so much? When can you date a friend's ex with impunity? Things you can do this 11/11/11 (on a date). A man loves food, sometimes more than sex.
Just because he's nice doesn't mean he won't hurt you.
There's a good deal written about bad boys — how to recognize them and how to avoid getting your heart broken. The truth is they can teach us what not to do in a relationship and they can be our best teachers. But bad boys aren't the only dangerous men out there. You need to watch out for the "super nice guys" as well.
Why dating a nerdier guy could be your best bet for long-lasting romance!
By Julie Fishman
In the great wide world of dating, the options are numerous. But amid the hodgepodge of hunks, be sure not to overlook the often ignored nerds. While they may not be smooth or strapping, nerds make fantastic boyfriends. Here are just some of the reasons why:
Plus, why some guys pretend you're not dating and why nice guys rock.
Why do guys pretend like you're not dating? Help a strange, awkward collegian find a date. Even awesome guys get a little nervous during the part of the chase know simply as "the approach." Learn about "The System" and how it may be employed to ask you on a date. Some tips on dating from a really cool married dude. Do most men "marry up"? How to convert nagging into "constructive criticism." What old married couples know that you should too. And why nice guys friggin' rock!
Why some women can't stand nice guys, and others prefer them. Our community weighs in.
Recently, Lucia, Dating Expert on the YourTango Experts Blog, stirred up a heated discussion in her post, "12 Reasons Women Can't Stand Nice Guys." Her premise was that women say they prefer nice guys but usually end up dating bad boys because bad boys are more "real" than nice guys, more attractive, more respectable and more charming, to name a few reasons.
A new study suggests that women are more attracted to brooding men than smiling ones.
Having a bad day? Turn that frown upside down...unless you're a man in search of a girlfriend. According to new research from the University of British Columbia, women are more sexually attracted to brooding men than to smiling ones. Conversely, male subjects found cheerful-looking women more sexually attractive than women who display confidence and pride.
What is it about bad boys that’s so irresistible? Christian Carter explains all, and tells you how to start breaking the pattern of falling for guys who aren’t good for you.