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Who knew that playing World of Warcraft could lead to a sizzling sex life?

Nerdy Girls Have Better Relationships, More Fun

Women who play games like World of Warcraft and Zelda have more sex.

Upon first examination, you may think spending hours playing computer games would have a negative effect on a woman's social life. Well guess again, naysayers!

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There are (at least) seven reasons to date a geeky fella.

Love Bytes: 7 Reasons To Date A Nerdy Guy

Plus, is it weird for a man to talk about sex (with his wife) with his buddies?

Older ladies still appreciate their jollies. What we can learn from the Dutch. Why can't a guy talk about sex with his buddies? What are guys really thinking when they create a dating profile? Some pick-up lines, per science, really work. And, why you should date a geeky dude.

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Help The Economy By Dating An Intellectual Nerd! [EXPERT]

Intellectuals aren't as sexy as jocks, but they should be. A new study links IQ and economics.

When choosing your next romantic partner, forget about rippling muscles and an outdoorsy tan. Do something really patriotic: pick an intellectual nerd! A new set of findings, recently released online in the journal Psychological Science, suggests that intellectuals are good for the economic health of a country.

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Comic-Con Is Full Of Kinky Sex, Just Check Craigslist

Leave it to us sci-fi enthusiasts to dork up the casual encounters listings.

You'd think that Comic-Con would be my Graceland, but alas I've never been. A handful of reasons include hating lines, cheapness and a mild shame at liking my stories full of lasers, muscles, spandex and swords (not necessarily in that order). But the reason many people go to Comic Con is, at its core, the main reason I do not: I am terrified of kinky group sex. And Ranker.com proves that a portion of the conventioneers are there for the sexy stuff.

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10 Hot Nerdy Men of Comic Con [GALLERY]

Justin Timberlake, Dule Hill and other hot men are in San Diego geeking out at Comic Con.

Did you know there would be hot guys at Comic-Con? Hey, nerdy men can be hot. Plus, Justin Timberlake, Dule Hill, Sinqua Walls and more are there!

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I Flirt Like A Nerd

When it comes to wooing, she's all about the words.

I recently had a flirtation with a guy whereby we debated the merits of using Dictionary.com versus the actual hard copy, old school, book version of the dictionary. And I realized, with some degree of alarm, that this felt familiar. That this—this courting by way of words—was not a one-time thing. It was a recurring thing. It was my thing.

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iPad Proposal And 6 More Nerdy Engagement Stories

Technology's most adorable, nerdy engagement stories, including the iPad proposal.

Zack Iniguez is a techy geek who proposed to his lady via iPad. Aww. In honor of this new-found use for the iPad, we've compiled a list of our favorite nerdy engagement stories for your heart-warming pleasure. Who doesn't love a geek in love?

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Why You're Better Off Dating A Nerd

Nerds are not a separate species. One self-described nerd is tired of the stereotypes.

A recent issue of a woman's magazine instructed their readers to date "nerds." The article read like it was written by a bunch of mean girl anthropologists in little black dresses who just discovered a whole new species of men. They seemed so happy to find guys who weren't smug investment bankers, aging jocks, or sociopathic musicians. But by their definition, a nerd is a scrawny, wheezing, socially awkward savant utterly devoted to any woman who pays him even the slightest attention. That's not a nerd.

Love Bytes: Summer Flings 101

Love Bytes: Summer Flings 101

Rules for friends with benefits, plus cheaters, bad boys, nerds and making the most of your time.

Love Bytes: Five must-click sex, love and relationship links. Rules for friends with benefits, plus cheaters, bad boys, nerds and making the most of your time.

4 Reasons To Give The Geeky Guy A Shot

4 Reasons To Give The Geeky Guy A Shot

If you haven't already, you must. Take our word on this one.

Geeky men are the best kept secret in the dating world. We've hoarded this info for years, but since spring is here and the weather is finally lightening, we're feeling generous and will pass along this kernel of wisdom to you, dear readers. Time to grow up and realize the soft-spoken, slightly disheveled, not overly hip guy seated in the corner over there, would actually make a much, much better boyfriend. 1.) He won't take you for granted. 2.) A massive ego is less likely. 3.) No worries about revealing your geeky side. 4.) Use him as your style canvas.

Guy-Approved Seduction Tips

Guy-Approved Seduction Tips

Seduce the right guy, the right way.

Whether you're looking for a guy who will stick around till last call or last till Medicare kicks in, attracting a man depends largely on the kind of specimen you're dealing with. Dating advice abounds, but the truth is, seduction is simple, once you know your audience. Smart guys, sporty guys, manly men and players tell you how to hook them (and why you might not want to).