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Mother's Day Is For… Cheaters?

Ashley Madison does a swift trade the day after Mother's Day.

Sometimes, Mother's Day is a little under-whelming. Ashley Madison founder Noel Biderman believes that this causes many women to have affairs starting the day after the holiday. Are we less tolerant of sexless marriages? Are uncommon arrangements becoming more common? Do you think crummy Mother's Days may lead to more cheating?

Love Bytes: 'The Office' Wedding

Love Bytes: 'The Office' Wedding

Who's getting naked, more proof that the pill changes attraction and does your man call you?

Who's getting naked, more proof that the pill changes attraction and does your man call you? 10 must-click love, sex and relationship links.

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Why You Shouldn't Fake An Orgasm

Ultimately, the only one getting faked out is you.

Is it okay if you, er, fudge a little in order to move things along? Dr. Jane Greer, a marriage and family therapist in New York City and host of the radio show Doctor On Call, examines the issue.

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Would You Marry Into A Hairy Situation?

Baby got back hair, and you cannot lie. Your other sisters can't deny.

Last December, I briefly dated a guy who was on the hairy side (c'mon now, it was winter, and it was cold!). While I think that a bit of hair on a guy's chest and back is sexy, lots of hair -- we're talking fur -- is NOT. What I've found, however, is that some women LOVE hairy men.

I Was In My Ex-Girlfriend's Wedding

I Was In My Ex-Girlfriend's Wedding

The story of not only attending, but being part of an ex's wedding party.

Whether you're a bride, part of the wedding party, or merely a guest who's excited to dress up and get wasted on someone else's tab, the wedding experience is something we're all familiar with. But when I was a bridesmaid in my ex-girlfriend's wedding, I didn't really know what to expect. On a hot summer day, not too long ago, I packed my red chiffon bridesmaid dress and boarded a plane heading north. Landing in Portland, I was greeted by my ex, Anna, the bride, and her nervous-looking, soon-to-be husband, Dean. Dean and I had only met once before when the two of them were on their way to Costa Rica and had a twelve-hour layover in L.A. They crashed at my place, where Dean kept a tight grip around Anna's waist and eyed me suspiciously all night.

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A Husband, Three Kids And Two Boyfriends

Meet Robyn: a polyamorist, suburbanite and mother. Could she be your next-door neighbor?

What would you do if you found out that the mom you shared carpool duties with was a dominatrix at night? Or what if that cute couple next door wasn't really a couple—but a threesome or a foursome? How would you react? Well, you better get used to it, because all across America, in sleepy suburbs just like yours, moms are hiding secrets. Meet Robyn. She's a 44-year-old mom of three and a polyamorist who's currently involved in loving, intimate relationships with three men. And she's open to more, time permitting.

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How To Say "Kids, We're Getting Back Together"

How to keep the children in mind when you're reconciling.

Many couples decide to get back together after a long or short period following separation or divorce. While reuniting is exciting, it is also stressful. Many thoughts enter the couple's mind: Will it last this time? Will it turn sour again when we are living together? Does my partner think about the other lovers? Will he/she abandon me again? How will our extended family and friends react? Sorting through this emotional turmoil is hard enough; but when children are involved, it's a whole different ballgame. The primary concern for these couples is: How will this affect our children? Read on for tips.

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The Sexiest Way To Prevent Cheating

Six things you can do to protect against infidelity.

As we know, affairs are truly a symptom of an unhealthy and unfulfilled marriage. One way to help inoculate your marriage against affairs is to keep your sex life and physical intimacy a priority. For some couples, sex is not even on the list after having kids. Dr. Michelle Golland: I was not surprised by the 2006 Newsweek article that reported that 15-20% of us are in "sexless" marriages. The article defined this as couples having sex less than once a month, or on average, 10 times a year.

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Love Bytes: 4 Kissing Don'ts

Sex studies, kissing mistakes and why guys cheat in the summer.

Love Bytes: 5 must-click sex, love and relationship links. Sex studies, kissing mistakes and why guys cheat in the summer.

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5 Things I Hate About My Marriage

Loving your husband does not mean that living with him is always easy.

Yes, I love my husband and family and wouldn't change a thing about our family unit. Now that I have made that obligatory statement, let me get to my point. There are certain issues that I have with the institution of marriage, which offers both wonderful benefits and incredible challenges, often in the same day. Here are the five things I hate about marriage.

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I Had Vaginal Rejuvenation Surgery: Part 2

A woman discovers what it's like to have sex after vaginal reconstruction surgery.

Back in April, I shared my story of having vaginal reconstruction. Of course, a surgery of this nature requires sex to be put on hold for quite awhile, but I promised readers that I would write again when my spouse and I finally gave the new runway a test flight. After eight weeks post-op, I was able to finally come home with the news, "It's cherry poppin' season, honey!" and we made our first attempt. The key word here is "attempt." Let me explain.