Contrary to popular belief, a drink can be a great tool for finding a man!
With the holidays coming, social gatherings are sure to be on everyone’s agenda. Instead of wasting time explaining to people why you're single at the next party or night out, grab a drink and tell your favorite pushy acquaintance (or family member) that you’re “workin’ on it." Before we begin, I will mention that many tweets ago, YourTango’s very own Tom, created a hashtag on Twitter that said that #songsthatleadtosex were any songs by War or NWA. Now, maybe "Straight Outta Compton" might not work so well, but I’ll say a little "Why Can’t We Be Friends" attitude is encouraged when we talk about drinking, flirting and “becoming friends.”
I’m old enough to know better, definitely smart of enough to know better but, I did it just the same
I’m old enough to know better, definitely smart of enough to know better but, I did it just the same. What? Shortly after my divorce I made a list of all the qualities my “perfect” man would have. Why did I do it? Because, it is something us women do regardless of how old or how smart we are. Top Ten Places to Meet Mr. Right
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Rori Raye on "circular dating," how to meet men, and why you should stop looking for Mr. Right.
Single women often ask us how to meet men, so when we started up a partnership with YourTango Expert Rori Raye, author of the blog and newsletter Have The Relationship You Want, we figured that places to meet men was a good topic to start with. Rori had some great ideas, but she also thought that was the wrong question. "It's not about where you go, it's about your mindset when you're there," she said. Rori recommends practicing "Circular Dating." Circular Dating takes the focus off meeting the man and turns it back on yourself, which builds your self-esteem and leads to meeting men. Here are ten things we learned from Rori.
We asked the top love experts to give the final word on the most-asked relationship and dating questions. In this episode of "The Final Word," we asked them where one can go to meet single men and women. Watch this video for at least three great ideas.
A new book by Andrea Syrtash urges single women to date the opposite of their type. Here's why.
In her new book He's Just Not Your Type (And That's A Good Thing), relationship expert Andrea Syrtash delves into this phenomenon and explains the problem with falling into the pattern of dating a certain type. More often than not, she writes, these relationship patterns end in heartbreak because single women are looking THE WRONG type. And in the process, excluding a large percentage of the eligible male population. Her advice? Date the opposite of your type.
You can't just wait around for the man or woman of your dreams to approach you. Whether you are male or female, you must make the first move. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
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