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Why Single Women Love Married Men

Why Single Women Love Married Men

The real reason he never leaves home without his wedding ring & why his mistress couldn't care less.

She walks into a bar and takes a quick appraisal of her surroundings. She’s looking for something very specific. Sure, looks are important but that’s really not what she latches onto. This chick is looking for something beyond a late-night booty call but far less intense than a full-fledged relationship. She longs for the perks of a typical dating romance but is repulsed by the thought of the responsibility that an actual relationship would bring. Tall, dark and handsome aren’t the only monikers that this single gal looks for in a mate.

What Every Man Wants Every Woman To Know  - Part II

What Every Man Wants Every Woman To Know - Part II

Gender education helps women gain greater awareness of men's needs and leads to happier relationship

Many women ask me why they have to be the one in the relationship to be flexible, be the one to have to stroke the guy’s ego to cultivate change. Women were designed to adapt, it’s the maternal instinct we were born with. It is not easy, but I can almost guarantee you that to experience a shift between a man and woman, the woman almost always has to make the first move in the relational chess game in order to transform the relationship for the better and empower herself. She’s the nurturer, the caretaker, the catalyst for change.

Married Men Who Think About Cheating

Married Men Who Think About Cheating

Why might married men think about cheating? Is it because they don’t love our significant others? In some cases yes, but in others I don’t think it has to do with love at all. I think that people who find themselves thinking about cheating will usually do so because they are either a little bored with their sex lives, miss being single or want something a little naughtier. Married men with children for example may want to do things sexually with their wives that they can’t bring themselves to do (like giving a facial). They feel like they shouldn’t degrade their wives so they think about having an affair or finding a mistress. Men who are married for a long time stop feeling youthful. They may think they no longer have “it”. The only reason they would heat is to reaffirm they are still a stud who can get women. What better way than finding a young hottie to spend the night with commitment free. It’s

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The Best Of The Web: More Jesse James Shame

Infidelity, revenge sex and the real impact of porn.

Can rehab save Jesse James? First date sex. Moms sleeping with married men. What is revenge sex? Pornography's affect on society. Pornography's affect on the family. Is it a booty call or does he really like you? Turning household stuff into sex toys. Reading a man's mind. Sex advice from redheads. When a great person is a terrible partner.

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Why One Newlywed Wants To Have An Affair

Too soon to have an affair? What drove this newlywed to join Ashley Madison.

When it was time to tie the knot, we decided to elope, rather than have a big wedding. We were both in agreement on that. Then, pretty soon afterward, he started traveling for work more often. I started to realize that marrying a highly motivated person means you also marry someone who's... busy. I first heard about Ashley Madison on the radio.

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Curing Low Testosterone: Pills Or Porn?

When a man loses desire, should he turn to tits or tablets?

Newsweek had an interesting article today that actually touted the health benefits of married men viewing porn. The article asked the (not often) debated question: what's the best fix for low testosterone: good, old-fashioned Jenna Jameson or the pharmaceutical industry? After all, neither are blameless diet-exercise-and-get-plenty-of-sleep solutions; it's pretty easy to judge weird drugs on the market and strange women on your living room T.V. a quick-fix called AndroGel has been on the market for the past decade, causing men who've lost that loving feeling to sign up in droves and attempt to reclaim lost hormones by slathering this foam-like stuff all over their bodies. AndroGel is supposed to turn them from a grouchy, sexless Homer Simpson-type character and into a cheery George Clooney of sorts ("improvement in energy, sexual desire, sexual function, and mood within 1 month" says the website).

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A Mini-Vacation From Monogamy

Why married men think they've joined the ultimate club.

The idea of an open marriage is as much a part of the new male fantasy as say, a first round draft pick or a three point basket at the final buzzer.

Can Married Women Befriend Married Men?

Can Married Women Befriend Married Men?

Can a woman can have a new male friendship while married? Cathi and Dan give advice.

Cathy Hanauer is the editor of The Bitch in the House. Daniel Jones is the editor of The Bastard on the Couch. They have been married for 14 years and together they provide a his and hers take on questions about sex, love, dating and relationships. This round: being friends with the opposite sex. Question: My husband and I are newly married and share most of our friends. But recently I made a male friend who my husband doesn't get along with—in fact, he seems suspicious! What's the best way to cultivate this new friendship on my own? –Arianna, 32