manners
Don't get grabby, have manners, make eye contact and 10 other first-date tips from women.
In the dating world especially, first impressions are lasting ones. So it's always rough when you thought you wooed a dude and he never calls you again. Sigh. Luckily, this week, one of our Frisky gentlemen clued us in to the 10 Reasons He Didn't Ask You Out On A Second Date. Eye opening, am I right, ladies?! While cell phone shenanigans, a lack of physical attraction, talking too much about yourself, and blatant pre-date lies definitely apply to both genders, there are some specific reasons for why a gal won't give a guy the time of day again. Here … Read More
Is chivalry dead? Or has it just changed shape? One man weights in.
When I'm feeling jaded I can't help but agree with Dave Chappelle's assessment that chivalry is dead—and women killed it. Don't get me wrong, I honestly enjoy opening the door, picking up the check and planning dates (OK, planning dates can get a little old). But what really makes me nervous are all of the obscure rules, most of which seem a little antiquated to me. Por ejemplo:
- Standing up when you leave the table. This just increases the odds that I'll bump into something and spill your drink. Do you want that?
- Pulling out your chair. Maybe in … Read More
YourTango's "Facebook Manners And You" video has become a viral hit, so we thought we'd tell you a little bit about how we made it. Styled as a 1950s-era instructional film, the video chronicles the rule-breaking breakup of Timmy Gordon and Alice Johnson on Facebook, the "electric friendship generator." These two completely ignore Facebook etiquette, and boy do they ever pay the price!
Watch Facebook Manners And You
Since we released the video, curious fans have wondered where we found old footage and how we digitally inserted Alice into the scene. In fact, we created it from scratch, … Read More
If you weren't paying attention, here's the week's best from YourTango
Hot, Hot, Hot! That's the only way to describe YourTango this past week. In case you had to get some water, here's a recap.
Feature: Diary Of A 23-Year-Old Mistress "He's just too charming, his presence too intense for me to resist," writer Emily Rozen writes. "And it doesn't help that I'm falling in love." Steamy!
Feature: How To Love Like A Tough, Southern ChickDolly Parton, Paula Deen, Margaret Mitchell and now you too can love like a Southern Chick!
Video: Facebook Manners And You If this is friendship, would you not be my friend? … Read More
The Facebook legend introduces his new column.
Dear Sirs and Madams:
By the looks of it, there is a propaganda campaign against yours truly on the informative super-freeway. The conspiracy has maligned my character and made it almost impossible to get anyone up to Lookout Point. Plus the guys at work have been razzing me non-stop. Please watch the TV show below and tell me if anything I did was really worth the hubbub:
About as funny as a screen door on a submarine, right? But has anyone thought about my feelings? I admitted that what I did was "L7" all the way and said … Read More
Do you have good Facebook manners? Timmy and Alice don't. Watch their bad behavior to learn the dos and don'ts of Facebook breakups.
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The polite way to go about having a one-night stand.
The morning sun shines through the window. You yawn sleepily, stretching your arms above your head. Rolling over, fluffing the pillow, your eyes open and you find yourself face-to-face with the friend of a friend of a friend you met at last night's party.
Now what?
Be honest
Let's rewind to the beginning of the evening. Between the drinks and dances—but prior to heading back to someone's bed—one of you should clarify expectations. If all you want is a one-night stand, that's fine, but be upfront. If you want more, it's a good idea to bring that up, too. If you utter … Read More