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How to "Train" Your Man In Bed [EXPERT]

How to "Train" Your Man In Bed [EXPERT]

Find out why acting like his sex teacher is one of the biggest mistakes you can make...

Most of us women secretly wish for something we’re not getting in bed, and while wishing is important, it doesn’t often get your message through to your man. If you want to teach a man how to make love to your body and heart, you need to understand two key things to succeed. The first, is how to talk to a man about sex (in the right way), and the second is how to express your feminine vulnerability.

Guess When The Busiest Time Of Year For Sex Is...
Right about now?

Guess When The Busiest Time Of Year For Sex Is...

Studies show there are peak times and weather for makin' love (and makin' babies).

The majority of kiddos are conceived during the winter holiday season. If we break this down, we'll find that one part holiday spirit, one part New Year’s Eve hilarity, and one part chilly weather, equals several reasons to strip down to nothing and get it on.

What Men Really Think About You in the Club

What Men Really Think About You in the Club

Men will consider sleeping with the trashy looking girl, but will never bring her home to mama.

Men and women usually go to the club for vastly different reasons. Men go to the club to find women, find women, and to find women. Women go to the club to sometimes find a man, but also to enjoy themselves by dancing and drinking the night away with friends. Men are reactionary creatures. If you want to know what we think about you at the club, all you need to do is evaluate one thing: Your activity at the club. Men read what women give us to read. It’s as simple as that.

Dating & Relationships: 50 Sex Tips For Men & Women

Dating & Relationships: 50 Sex Tips For Men & Women

Keep the sex alive in your relationship by keeping it new! Try these tips out at home.

Regardless of whether you are in a relationship or just dating at the moment, these tips are something to implement into your sex-life. Many of us forget about the little things that we loved about each other when we first met & become complacent within our relationships. This is not something to be taken lightly and nurturing the love between you & your partner should be a top priority on a daily basis.

Is Sex Sinful?

Is Sex Sinful?

Many have made it a taboo - don't talk about it, don't read about it, and don't do it! Really?

Hundreds of thousands, more than likely millions, of people have grown up being taught that sex is a sin. It is considered dirty and should only be done to produce new life, and even then it should be done quickly and with extreme secrecy. In some ancient societies, if a woman was raped within a town or village not only was her attacker stoned to death, but so was she!

What to Bring to His Place (and What Not to Leave) When You Visit

What to Bring to His Place (and What Not to Leave) When You Visit

If you are feeling naughty or kinky, leave a clean pair of panties underneath his pillow with a note

Ending up at his place for the first few times is pretty exciting and nerve-wracking all on its own. Understanding that what you do and how you act during these first few experiences at cohabitation will tell your man more about you than any words ever could. Understanding a few key points can help you show the man of your dreams that you are fun, sexy, and responsible.

 22 Gifts That Say "I Love You Baby" Without Breaking the Bank

22 Gifts That Say "I Love You Baby" Without Breaking the Bank

Our top choices for gifts under $25 or free that will say " I love you baby".

Searching for the perfect gift for your man, but on a tight budget? No worries – here at How to Get the Man of Your Dreams.com, we surveyed our team of Relationship Coaches, who are all male, for gifts they’d love to receive - that cost little to no money. With a little creativity and effort, you can create a lasting impression on the man of your dreams.

7 Positions to Sleep in that Will Excite the Man of Your Dreams

7 Positions to Sleep in that Will Excite the Man of Your Dreams

Positions that are sure to have your man wanting nothing more than to be between the sheets with you

  Body language reveals our true feelings, and your relationship partner has no trouble with picking up on this physical queue. But what does your body language say while you are sleep? Are there sleeping positions that will excite the man of your dreams? In sleep, we are our most honest, vulnerable selves and certain sleep positions can immediately evoke sensual thoughts and pleasures.

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"It's better to know it and not need it than to need it and not know it!"

Oral Sex 101: What You Need To Know [EXPERT]

What a man really wants out of oral pleasure.

If you don't like doing it, it leaves you in the position of finding the 2% of men who do not care anything about it. This is not a favorable position to be in. The odds are exceedingly against you. But keep in mind that it's always better to know what to do and not need it, than need it and not know what to do. Who knows? One day it may grow on you. (Pun intended.) Now, if you're ready to get your hands dirty, continue to read on.

Cycles in Relationships

Cycles in Relationships

All life is based on cycles, so why do we have trouble accepting cycles in relationships?

Pinkee here~ All of life is based on cycles. If you really think about it, it’s true. The days and nights, the growth cycle of plants, the seasons, the tides, a woman’s menstrual cycle. Women in general seem to be more in tune with the cycles of life. They tend to go with the flow, and bring themselves into harmony with what is more easily than men. No judgment here. Just stating what is. And as always, I’m talking in general. Of course there are exceptions to every rule.

"Making Love" At Work

"Making Love" At Work

Heighten your love attraction meter by building passion for what you do.

Okay, okay, hold up. We all know that some of you have actually made love in your office, your bosses' office, in the cubicle next door, and maybe even at the security desk. And frankly I know how exciting it can be, fooling around doing something you are not supposed to, making an effort to not get caught. It is all the thrill of the “making love at work” game.