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Online Daters Are OK With Others Lying In Their Profiles

Online Daters Are OK With Others Lying In Their Profiles

Shave off a few years or pounds? Other online daters almost expect you to.

We've all seen the studies and reports that expose online daters for what they really are: liars. OK, not all online daters lie but many have been found to misrepresent themselves, whether it be about their weight, age, salary, etc. This may seem like a bad thing but according to a new study, users are OK with certain online misrepresentations.

"Why Did He Lie to Me?"

"Why Did He Lie to Me?"

Is lying a part of your relationship system? Is anger or judgment also a part of it?

Amanda and Ron had been married for six years and had two small children. I had counseled them during some difficult times in their marriage, but had not heard from them for a while. Then Amanda scheduled an emergency phone session with me. She was very upset. "I just found out that Ron's been watching porn on the Internet

How To Liespot Your Man

How To Liespot Your Man

Pamela Meyer's new book gives women the tools they need to detect deception in their relationships.

There are times it's obvious when a man is lying. Like when he opens his mouth. Just kidding! We're not that bitter (typically). But seriously, there are times in some relationships when you wonder if he really was at his buddy Jim's house playing poker until 3:30 a.m. Or if that woman Mindy with the ginormous ta-tas who friended him on Facebook really is "just some girl that used to live up the street" from him.

I Called The Other Woman, So What?

I Called The Other Woman, So What?

Caught him cheating, did you? Tempted to give her a call...? Read this story first.

After she had dating him for four months, freelance writer Lindsay Hitchcock ("Orlando's Carrie Bradshaw") thought she had found the perfect man. He was "10 years older, mature, confident, and established (and tall!)." However, Hitchcock began to get somewhat suspicious when a "mystery blonde" kept texting and calling this "perfect" man during dates. It wasn't long before the suspicions took over; Hitchcock went through his phone and called her...

couple woman looking away

11 Signs A Lady Is Telling Lies

She's avoiding your questions and looks uneasy, but is she lying? 11 signs that she is.

She may think her poop smells like roses, but her BS definitely stinks! So, when in doubt, here's how you can figure out if your lady is being straight with you.

Liar Liar! Why We Lie And How To Spot A Liar

Liar Liar! Why We Lie And How To Spot A Liar

When it comes to relationships, why do we lie? Plus, how to spot a liar.

When it comes to relationships, why do we lie? Plus, how to spot a liar. Despite the warning of countless children's stories, we humans still lie. Has the fear of growing long, wooden noses or becoming a wolf's next meal taught us nothing?

How To Spot A Liar

Is It Possible To Spot A Liar?

How to spot a liar: four sure-fire signals that you haven't been using.

Most of us think we know the telltale signs of a liar—shifty eyes, sweating, a long, winding story that seems highly improbable. In reality, however, there is not one behavior all liars exhibit and some behaviors we associate with lying could mean something else entirely. Because of this, few people are very good at spotting liars. But deciphering a liar from a truth-teller is not completely hopeless; it just isn't as easy as is seems.

harry potter and the half blood prince

8 Harry Potter Tools We Want For Our Relationships

Magic objects from the Harry Potter series that, if they actually existed, we'd use for love.

As the latest Harry Potter movie installment, Harry Potter and the Half-blood Prince, hits theaters, teenage hormones are running at an all-time high at Hogwarts. The sixth book in J. K. Rowling's insanely popular series took us to a major turning point in Potter and Co.'s love lives as Harry's relationship with Ginny develops and Hermione and Ron realize their antagonism was really amoré. In honor of the Potter nerd in all of us, we re-imagined eight magical objects from the Harry Potter world in the context of how they could benefit our not-always-magical love lives.

Anna K Won’t Marry Enrique Iglesias

Anna K Won’t Marry Enrique Iglesias

Enrique and Anna: the joke’s on him.

It looks like Enrique Iglesias is –willingly– being used and abused by tennis pro/beau Anna Kournikova, whose been dating the singer since staring in his music video, "Escape," in 2002. "She said I'm probably just a guy she wants to date for a few years, then she'll leave me. I'm cool with that." We're sure he has a choice in the matter. "We talked about it all one day and she said that she wouldn't marry me. And she meant it," said the singer. But did he mean it? Or was he just kidding? Enrique is a self-proclaimed jokester, afterall.