It's not news that sexual fluidity has been working its way into the mainstream. We all know the girl who experimented in college and then went back to guys, or the middle-aged woman who left her husband for some turquoise artisan in Taos named Deborah.

Both seem to be examples of the stronger sexual preference winning out in the end. But more and more, it's becoming acceptable for women to "hop the fence"—that is, to make the occasional gender switch-up in casual sex and in long-term relationships. I know, 'cause I'm one of 'em.

Although I'd always privately identified as bisexual, Read More

It is a truth universally acknowledged that Tila Tequila is gross. But until now we haven't had the technology to quantify her grossness; sure, you can talk all you want about viral loads, lip gloss applied with a trowel, and narcissistic Twitter updates taken far beyond their logical conclusions, but today we're attempting to define just what makes Tila so unrepentantly awful. Let's take a stroll down Icky Memory Lane, yes?

A Shot at Love

There's nothing wrong with a bisexual dating show, per se. We're all for people finding love, but when it comes in the form of one … Read More

Tila Tequila, who officially gave up dudes after accusing ex-boyfriend Shawn Merriman of beating her, broke the news via Ustream video on Wednesday that her latest girlfriend, Casey Johnson, popped the question. And because nothing is quite as entertaining as Tila's own ramblings, here is a snippet of her big announcement:

This is exclusive and going to be all over the news tomorrow, but because I love you guys so much, we are giving you the exclusive first—Tila army fans—tonight, my girlfriend has asked me to marry her!...So yeah, my baby got me this 17-carat ring. My … Read More

This week on a very special Family Ties reunion, Elyse stuns the Keaton clan by announcing that she's a lesbian!

Well, not quite. But in a real-life plot twist that no one saw coming, actress Meredith Baxter came out in an interview with People magazine. Meredith revealed that she has been in a four-year relationship with contractor Nancy Locke, and only discovered her true sexual identity seven years ago.

She explained that even after three failed marriages, the thought that she might be gay never occurred to her. She said that before coming out, "I was never comfortable … Read More

Meredith Baxter's (aka Elyse Keaton of the '80s sitcom Family Ties) announcement that she began dating women 13 years ago, at age 49, has produced a firestorm of publicity (Alex P. Keaton's mom likes girls!), as well as some knowing nods from women around the world. Changing attitudes about gays, as well as the increased confidence that comes with age, has made mature women more comfortable about revealing their sexuality. Heightened awareness and a certain hipness associated with woman-on-woman action—think The L Word and Katy Perry's diddy "I Kissed A Girl"—point to lesbianism as a hot topic in mainstream America. … Read More

When I was leaving for college, my high school friends predicted two things would occur once I fled the nest, away from my WASP-y parents: 1) I'd become a chain smoker to complete my poetry-reading, philosophy-pondering image, and 2) I'd get it on with girls. The Frisky: Documentary Suggests All Women Are Gay

After four years at hippie-dippy NYU, surprisingly, neither of these predictions came true. Alas, while I still have no interest whatsoever in getting lung cancer, I do still have an interest in hooking up with girls. Except these days, I'm pretty much convinced it's never going to happen. … Read More

Again, I've scoured the best and worst of the interwebs love and relationship content for you. It's my pleasure and please enjoy.

Awesome as always, Em & Lo (EmAndLo.com) discuss 10 things that most people don't know about hermaphrodites. I'm half-ashamed / half-relieved about not knowing the Star Wars one. On a separate note, I got a spam today entitled "Prove your male gender to her."

A scene in the classic Mall Rats involves Jason Lee opining on why Lois Lane could never be Superman's woman, and it had to do with his super sperm. Asylum tells us … Read More

Let's open with a disclaimer, so that when the gay "community" fires back at me with an indignant spank, they will recognize that I am family, and that my opinion does not come from the outside looking in. Not that they will be any more tolerant of my criticism because of it but, in the very least, they will know that I am on the same team and speak for many others like me who are sitting on the bench watching the parade go by.

I am a lesbian and the single mother of a teenage daughter. I am open about … Read More

Lindsay Lohan, step away from the computer.

Someone please take away Lindsay's iPhone, computer, Twit pic app, playlist, and any other electronic device with which she can possibly contact another person. Also please lock up her booze and other substances because her multi-media rants are almost certainly chemically-influenced. YourTango: How Not To Deal With A Romantic Rival

Celebitchy reports that Justin Timberlake dispises Lindsay Lohan. But he digs Sam Ronson's chops. So he invited Sam to Vegas to spin at the party to launch his new tequila line, and, … Read More

If David Beckham's underwear, abdominals and superlative soccer record haven't already put a spell on you, then today's appearance to kick off Ellen's seventh season will. Celebrity Love: Top 10 British Celebrity Crushes

In typical charming and sheepish fashion Becks dished on life with Victoria and their three sons Brooklyn, 10, Romeo, 7 and Cruz, 4. When Ellen asked David if he's really as shy in front of the media as he claims to be, he said only when he's on the soccer field and with Victoria and the boys is he … Read More