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Would you support a law that required women to take their husband's last name?

Would You Support A Law That Makes You Take Your Husband's Name?

To take his last name, or not to take his last name? That is the question.

It's an age-old tradition that has been followed, seemingly without too much protest, for years. For most, making the switch to their husband's last name is exciting; a sort of "final seal" on the lifelong vows you've made. But many women are challenging this tradition nowadays, especially those who are less religious and more educated.

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Living With Your Boyfriend Is A Crime In Florida

An antiquated Florida law has cohabitating couples facing jail time.

Looking for a place to live with your boyfriend in Florida? There's a cozy one-room studio behind bars waiting for you. A state law that dates back to the 1800's condemns opposite-sex unmarried couples living under the same roof.

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Get Blown Away, Louisiana! Oral Sex Is Now Legal

Louisiana residents may finally engage in oral and anal sex without criminal consequences.

Believe it or not, if Bayou State residents were convicted of "unnatural carnal copulation" (aka oral and anal sex), they were at risk of being charged with a felony and forced to register as a sex offender. In addition to the charge, the label was also branded on driver's licenses. Looks like the Scarlet Letter had some competition, Hester Prynne.

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Should Judges Decide Who Can Get Married?

In California the issue of marriage isn't being decided by couples, but by a judge.

Across the country couples face the tough decision: to marry or not to marry. But in California that decision is being left up to a judge. A federal judge can't order that people change their minds, however. No court can. Essentially, who is responsible for making important decisions about marriage?

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Wife Sues Mistress For $5 Million... And Wins

A mistress owes one North Carolina wife $5.8 million for ruining her marriage.

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned and Dr. Lynn Arcara made this much clear when she sued the women who broke up her marriage for $5.8 million. And won. Well, sort of.

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Using A Hitman On Your Spouse To Be Extra Illegal

California is trying to close a loophole that allows people to benefit from murder.

A very strange case in California has highlighted the need for revisions to the law. It's currently not possible to make any money from a divorce if you've attempted or succeeded in murdering your spouse, but you can still get divided communal assets if you hire or attempt to hire someone to do the deed. Many people feel this loophole is unfair, against the spirit of the law and should be closed as soon as it is convenient for everyone involved.

Same-Sex Wedding

Gay Marriage Update: The Good, The Bad & Ugly

Gay marriage recognition around the world seems to take two steps forward, one step back.

In case you haven't been keeping up with gay marriage news on an international front: it's two steps forward, one step back. For every city and country legalizing same-sex marriage, another knocks gay rights back decades, if not centuries (hello, prison sentences).

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How Loud Is Your Lovemaking?

Neighbors complain of losing sleep "virtually every night," causing a British woman to be silenced.

Getting vocal during sex isn't a crime—unless you live in England and the noises you make are so loud and disturbing, it "constitutes [as] a statutory nuisance." One woman is now banned from noisy sex throughout all of the United Kingdom.

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Should Blood Tests Be Required To Get Married?

Fewer marriage licenses are issued when blood tests are required. Is that such a bad thing?

Until the 1980s, most states required people to get a blood test in order to get a marriage license. The test, which screened for certain illnesses, like syphilis and rubella, was put in place to cut down on the spread of communicable diseases and prevent birth defects. By 2006, however, the blood test requirement was phased out everywhere U.S. except Washington D.C. and Mississippi. Three researchers (Kasey Buckles of Notre Dame, Melanie Guldi of Mount Holyoke, and Joseph Price of Brigham Young) recently decided to find out if the elimination of the blood test had any relationship to the number of couples who applied for marriage licenses each year. Studying data on state marriage rates between 1980 and 2006, they found that, when blood tests were required, 5.7% fewer licenses were issued

10 Surprising Facts About Kissing

10 Surprising Facts About Kissing

Ten kissing facts, traditions and out-there laws.

Forget sex. Kissing can be one of the most intimate, sensual, and just plain fun things you can do with another person. And as anyone who is sex-educated knows: the better the foreplay, the better the sex. Read on to discover ten unusual kissing facts, and be grateful that locking lips no longer leads you to the guillotine.

Gay Couple And No Kids

Gay Or Straight, No Kids Means No Marriage

Why gay couples and straight couples without kids are the same in the eyes of some.

It seems quite silly really. Deny heterosexual couples the right to get married? Not in this country. But aha! We could be headed there very shortly if definition is to be followed and conservatives are not to be questioned.