The old cliché warns against judging a book by its cover, and this is especially true when sizing up a lover. You just can't tell how sexually adventurous a person is by looking at them. Appearances don't always deceive; sometimes they just obscure the truth. And I've learned over the years that just because she looks Amish, doesn't mean she doesn't have a vibrator the size of a jackhammer under her bed. The Frisky: 21 Reasons Not To Have Sex, From A Former Prude

This fact of romance became apparent to me over the span of six months many … Read More

You finally worked up the nerve to buy a vibrator.

Now comes the big hurdle: introducing your fella to the new battery-operated man in your life. Yes that's right—just because you have the real thing at home doesn't mean the two of you can't shake up your sex life with a toy. We asked Claire Cavanah, co-founder of sex shop Babeland, for tips on working a vibrator into your twosome. "Adding a little stimulation during intercourse can bring each of you to new heights." Lemondrop: How To Buy Your First Toy

Popping the Question
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I thought I'd had "rough sex" before; I'd been spanked on my butt plenty of times, had my hair pulled, even been caned once while strung up with my hands over my head. That hurt, and I cried, and I liked it, because I'm submissive like that, but it was just a one-time thing. I'd had plenty of encounters with talking dirty, spinning all sorts of nasty fantasies, where, most of the time, I was on the receiving end of some very hot epithets. But I'd never wanted to be choked until I got together with the … Read More

Today the Daily Bedpost turns us on to The Great Big Chart of Fetishes, a color-coded flow-chart of sorts, listing and linking various sexual proclivities to one another. (The chart is photo-free and safe for work, unless you've got an eagle-eyed boss, or a screen that projects onto a wall—hey, it happens.)

Some of the preferences on the chart are widespread, or at least we've heard of them, and some are, shall we say, less common.  Major categories and themes listed are…

Classic SM, including spanking, bondage, branding, suspension, burning, electrical shock—not sure when … Read More

Kara's Porn for Women No girl-on-girl pics here. One of the few sites targeted to heterosexual women, it has a small collection of stories, primarily involving consensual, one-on-one intercourse and oral sex. A collection of links points to stories with more slightly more diversity, but still with hetero women in mind. It also has articles, book reviews and pictures. Free Best Sex Stories This site has a large collection of stories with a range themes and an intuitive interface, so you can quickly click on what you're looking for, whether it's erotic poetry or anal … Read More

From The Advertiser

LONDON whipped the "No sex please, we're British" attitude into submission today as leather and PVC-clad punters squeezed into the world's largest adult lifestyle fair.

Erotica 2007, a three-day fest at the giant Kensington Olympia exhibition venue, is expecting to attract more than 80,000 sexually curious visitors for its 10th annual event.

"Romance, seduction, divine torture – whatever you desire we can provide," program editor Carol Milligan said.

"Sleek designs and couture creations – from pendants to corsets to life-size sculptures are among our selection from thousands of products on offer at this year's show: fashion, … Read More