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Flirting 101: 8 Ways To Get Any Guy You Want

Expert advice on how you can turn your next girls' night out into a flirting party.

Here at YourTango we have access to the top flirting experts in the country, so we'll tell you exactly what to do. We recently had the chance to get flirting tips from dateologist Tracey Steinberg at the first-ever Single In Stilettos conference — basically a haven for single gals to find out what's cooking in the world of love, and learn the latest dating tips. When you've mastered these tricks, you will become a true pickup artist. And what better way to show off your skills than by turning your next girls' night out into a flirting frenzy?

Why European Women Ooze Sensuality [EXPERT]

Why European Women Ooze Sensuality [EXPERT]

What do they have that we don't? The confidence to flirt with ease.

I recently returned from a trip to Italy and I was captivated at how comfortable women are with their bodies, every curve, every hair strand, every toe nail. They embrace the figure they were born with (no matter the shape or size) and work every body part to their advantage. They are at ease with the fact that men love to look at women and women love to be admired by men. In fact, male and female courtship is a regular discussion at the dinner table.

How to Meet Your Husband in 2012

How to Meet Your Husband in 2012

Be honest. Did your New Year’s resolutions for 2012 include “I want to meet my husband"?

Be honest. Do your New Year’s resolutions for 2012 include “I want to meet my husband"?   Then keep reading. It’s time to set the scene so you can purposefully and powerfully manifest Mr. Right.  

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5 Types Of Flirting Men Love

Men love flirting just as much as women do. Here, five ways to flirt your way into his heart.

When it comes to sex and dating, much has been written about the simplicity of men and complexity of women. So when it comes to flirting, logic may (incorrectly) tell you men love nothing more then no nonsense shoulder tap and head nod to the nearest hotel. Why flirt when you can just get down to business? In reality, men take flirting just as seriously as us gals and love the subtle dance as much as the ladies do. Below we've mapped out a plan that includes five types of flirting men love.

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How To Flirt With Someone You Just Met

Seven expert flirting tips for single women: how to flirt with a guy you just met.

Eyeing the cutie across the room? Learn how to flirt with confidence! You don't need to know someone to flirt up a storm. Chat him up and make your intentions clear with this advice on flirting with someone you just met.

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How To Flirt With An Older Man

An older man is not out of your league. Here's how to flirt with that sexy gray-haired hunk.

He's got 20 years on you, but you find him irresistible. You'd love to date him, but how? Flirting with an older man is similar to flirting with any guy—with a few exceptions. Here's how to successfully flirt with an older man.

The Last Seduction

The Last Seduction

A man on the street accidentally winked at me.  He must have had something in his eye, I know the wink wasn’t for me.  But it got me thinking.  I miss flirting.  I miss the fine art of seduction.  I miss feeling the dizzying chemistry between me and a man linger long enough for the tension to swell.  I long for the days when men wanted to work a little harder to get a gal’s attention and women knew how to beguile.  Back when the journey to bed was almost as intoxicating as the arrival.  

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4 Tricks To Instantly Connect With Anyone

How to make a connection and leave a great first impression when flirting or on a date.

It'd be great if dating and flirting were easy, things you could approach with excitement and nonchalance—unfortunately that's not always the case. Here are four tricks for making a great first impression whether you're cruising the pick-up scene at a bar or on a first date.

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Text Message Flirting For Beginners

How to use your cell phone to start or spice up a relationship.

These days, women need to be technologically savvy not only for work but for our love lives. In today's dating world, men aren't limiting themselves to calling us. Instead, we've come to expect a flirtatious text or two a few hours or days after a date. If you hit it off, you might even take it to the next level of "sexting," and exchange sexy images and texts. New to sexting or too shy to try it? Don't worry, it's easy to start, and can actually help those who may be on the more bashful side to release their inner sex goddess.

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4 Sneaky Ways To Put The Moves On A Guy

Who knew showing interest could be so easy?

One of the questions women always ask me is whether hitting on guys is a good move. I know why they’re conflicted. We are socialized to believe that when it comes to the game of love, men should be on permanent offense. And I’ll admit that on the exceedingly rare occasions when a woman has approached me at the bar, I don’t know how to react. But that’s not to say women should play the role of damsel in distress when they spot Prince Charming. You just need to be strategic in your approach.