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New York Schools Will Require Sex Ed For First Time In 20 Years

One of the lessons will be how to put on and use a condom.

New York City schools will be required to have sex-education classes for middle and high school students this year. They will include lessons on using a condom, city officials say. The classes mark the first time in almost two decades the city will require sex-education classes.

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Statutory Rape? Politician Weds High School Girl

Andrea Catsimatidis is 21. Christopher Cox is 32. They met when she was 17. Creepy?

This week in totally disturbing nuptials news, a staffer on John McCain’s 2008 presidential campaign met his bride-to-be while on a tour stop on behalf of the Republican candidate. The only problem? Oh, she was 17, and he was visiting her high school. There are so many gross gems from the romance of 29-year-old Christopher Cox and his now 21-year-old bride Andrea Catsimatidis, featured in the New York Times Vows section this weekend.

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Had Sex In High School? You're More Likely To Get Divorced

Women who lose their virginity as teens are twice as likely to get divorced in 10 years.

A new study may have you regretting losing your virginity in the backseat of your high school boyfriend's car. The latest research claims that women who have sex for the first time in their teens are more likely to get divorced.

Love And The Classroom

Love And The Classroom

When it comes to love in the classroom, what are the rules?

Lyz On Love is a weekly round-up of internet news about love and relationships and all those other indoor sports. This week on Lyz On Love, I am talking about love and the classroom. In the video, I confess to dating a classmate, who turned out to just be using me to make his ex girlfriend jealous. Sadly, she never became jealous. Was it my sweet 90s suspenders or stylish newsboy caps? We will never know. But what was left out of the video, was that I ended up using him to drive around in his convertible and egg people's houses. (I sure hope there is a statute of limitations on those confessions). So, in the end, that relationship worked out for me. I also dated another classmate, this time in college. He just played the guitar and World of Warcraft. A. Lot. But he did make me some sweet mix CDs. I think it lasted a month. There is only so much you can do in a relationship that is based on video games and Ben Harper covers.

Is Matchmaking For Teens A Bad Idea?

Is Matchmaking For Teens A Bad Idea?

Some parents in Indiana are not happy with a matchmaking fund-raiser for teens.

Dating and romantic relationships are really important, yet most people are only so-so at them. Learning things like etiquette, fork usage and the rules regarding when (and when not) to call shouldn't be things people learn by humiliating trial and error. And let's not even get started on how unreasonable it is to expect most youngsters to simply say "sounds fair" when you tell them that having sex is dangerous and they should avoid it at all costs until marriage. But one thing we can do is avoid exposing kids to the mindfark that is matchmaking too early. Indiana parents agree.

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'30 Rock' Recap: Jack's Internet Love Connection

The '30 Rock' exec is reunited with a high-school love. Surprisingly, it's not a disaster. For now.

Jack Donaghy, the big cheese at '30 Rock' is reunited with a high-school love. Surprisingly, it's not a disaster. For now.

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5 Benefits To Being A Late Bloomer

Coming into your own at a later age might make sex and dating easier.

The overnight British singing sensation Susan Boyle has given a whole new spin on the term late bloomer. After admitting to never having been kissed, as a 47-year-old woman, the folks over at Smitten asked their readers how many of them were late-bloomers. A late bloomer does not have to mean you are a 40-year old virgin or have never been kissed at age 47. It might mean that you had your first kiss a few years later than your friends seemed to, that your first relationship wasn't until after college, or that you just didn't really grow into your looks until a later age.

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Dating Detox: I Took A 3-Year Break From Men

One woman goes three years without a date to kick her bad-boy habit.

People enter detoxification programs to rid their bodies of toxins, lose a little weight, maybe look and feel better about the damage they’ve done to their bodies. But how do you detoxify from poor love decisions? Is there a Promises out there for people who have had one toxic relationship after another? How do you take the damage done from too many bad relationships to enable a fresh start? One writer finds out.