If, after a breakup, your ex-boyfriend is getting back in touch with you, it could mean a couple different things.

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While some women have trouble with breasts that droop or low-hanging butt cheeks, my heart has always been my least-resilient body part. Like Chet Baker once crooned, I fall in love too easily. And once it ends—especially when it's not my idea—I tend to have a little trouble getting back up on that passion pony. The worst time was after a six-year relationship went kibosh (translation: he dumped me). I didn't so much as kiss another man for two years. I know. It still makes me shudder.Sure, I was busy moaning, moping, sobbing, and sighing for the first … Read More

Breakups are like snowflakes: no two are exactly alike. So, too, are the songs that get us through them. Lucky for those in the throws of a breakup, 2008 brought us an array of tunes for the wounded heart.

A "good divorce" might feel even better after a listen to Pink's empowered breakup anthem, "So What," written about her own split from husband Corey Hart. Wondering whether to stay or leave? Adele's "Chasing Pavements" sings to your conflicted heart. Finally, those moving out of mourning must have Beyonce's "Single Ladies" in the mix. Lyrical genius it's not, but getting … Read More

At first blush, this headline had us ladies perplexed. We've carefully trained ourselves to never equate a man's erection with the pitter patter of a man's heart. The two are separate entities, independent from one another, and often acting in inverse ways. 

Nice try, science. But we're smarter than that.

But as we read more, we stumbled upon our foolish mistake. Not being able to get an erection spells trouble for a man's heart. Physically, not emotionally. In fact, it could mean diabetes, heart problems or metabolic syndrome.

Oh. 

Gary Wittert endocrinologist and Professor of Medicine at the University … Read More

If you could go back in time, what would you tell yourself? Don't sleep with him? Tell him you love him? Have protected sex? The LoveFeed discusses Essence.com's article on what advice women would give to their younger selves. 

The day scientists prove that a bacon cheeseburger, fries, and a milkshake make a lifesaving power-meal may never come. But they did recently add chocolate, everybody's favorite "vice," to the growing list of who-knew health foods—right next to red wine, and to a chorus of "j'ai-told-vous-so"s.

As it turns out, chocolate not only makes the heart grow fonder, but also makes it grow stronger. Like red wine, tea, and fruits and vegetables, dark chocolate is high in flavanols, which, according to the American Heart Association, lower blood pressure as well as bad (LDL) cholesterol levels.

What better way to express … Read More