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5 Steps To A Happier Relationship [EXPERT]
You have nothing to lose and a happier relationship to gain.

5 Steps To A Happier Relationship [EXPERT]

Simple tips to help you and your partner feel happier and more connected with one another!

Relationships and marriage take more work than we ever imagined. They challenge us to look at our own foibles, fears, and personal struggles deep within. So whether you have been married 20 years, or divorced with a strong faith in the next chapter in your life, take a look at these 5 steps that will help bring your relationship to a much more harmonious place.

9 Love Lessons I've Learned In 10 Years Of Marriage [EXPERT]
We could all learn a few things from a happily married couple.

9 Love Lessons I've Learned In 10 Years Of Marriage [EXPERT]

Try these tips for a long-lasting, loving relationship!

This year, I'll be celebrating my tenth anniversary with my husband, and while that's certainly not a record-breaking accomplishment, there are a few things I've learned along the way regarding keeping a relationship healthy, or at least from falling apart at the seams. Here they are.

2 Types Of Marriage That Make Women Happiest

2 Types Of Marriage That Make Women Happiest

Study of happy couples identifies the type of husband that will make for a happy marriage.

According to new research on happy couples, whether or not your enjoy a happy marriage (which consequently affects your future happiness) has a lot to do with (gasp!)…who you marry. Yes, shockingly, happy couples lead happier lives, according to a German study. So why are we bringing up this completely obvious finding? Glad you asked. You see, an essential part of a happy marriage is your husband or your so-called, better half. So if you're looking for a lifetime of happiness (or at least not a whole lot of misery followed by a big old divorce), you better pick your hubby right. And these German researchers did discover some interesting news about the type of husband that will keep you happiest for the long haul.

Study Says Happy Couples Talk And Write Alike

Study Says Happy Couples Talk And Write Alike

Couples: is the key to happy couplehood sharing a similar communication style?

The more relationship studies we read, the more convinced we are that love confounds science, doctorate degree holders, and couples all alike. As you might remember, we recently discussed findings that couples don't grow more alike over time. Now, a new study says that happy couples mimic each other's speech patterns and writing styles. A quick disclaimer: as the previously referenced study suggests, science thinks that the "opposites attract" theory is bull. Instead of growing more alike over time, couples date people with similar interests from the onset. Effective couples communication usually entails that couples have similar communicative styles in the first place.So it's not as if someone who talks like Snooki will develop Oscar Wilde-ian eloquence after dating someone with that caliber of wit. Say all you want about non-verbal communication, but a blissful couplehood won't last long without regular exchange of words in some form.

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9 Reasons Couples Should Have More Sex

Sex produces a host of health benefits. Couples, here are nine reasons to have more sex!

Couples that have become complacent in their relationship or too caught up with other things may not realize the benefits of a healthy sex life, but sex is important for so many reasons, both physical and emotional. You may have heard that sex releases oxytocin, the "cuddle hormone," which makes you feel lovey-dovey and improves your bond with your partner. There are many other health benefits you may not be aware of. Here are 9 reasons you should be having more sex.

Secrets of Happy Couples

Secrets of Happy Couples

Happily married couples practice behaviors that enhance their relationship. Here are three things you can do now to improve your relationship.

Secret To A Good Relationship?

DVR keeps couples happy.

Coming in second only to the cell phone, a recent survey of 1,000 DVR owners revealed that the television recording device is an item people increasingly can't live without. The survey suggests DVRs are becoming to households what the microwave once was: a source of liberation and harmony. DVR not only gets you to work on time (by recording morning Saved by the Bell reruns you might otherwise be tempted to watch, duh), it's also saving relationships. Men's website Asylum reports that nearly 80 percent of survey respondents said the technology has "improved relations with their significant other." While the company collecting this data is a DVR manufacturer, thereby knocking off a touch of legitimacy, there is true logic behind the results.

Couple Must Prove Bliss

Couple Must Prove Bliss

The prize? A side of bacon.

According to AFP, Jeff Dotts and Erin Albers of Nashville, Tennessee, were one of four couples (and the only Americans) who brought home the bacon this weekend literally. A bizarre ritual, dating back to the 12th century, in which the couple who can prove to a mock-court that they have the happiest marriage took place in England over the weekend. The prize? A flitch, or a half a pig.