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How to Hit on a Guy

Looking for Love? It's time you made your move...

Guys are sick of doing all the work!  Seriously.  They want you to approach them.  (Well, according to my reasearch 95% of them do anyway.)  The good news is, hitting on a guy is much easier than you think.  Here's how to do it:  

Friday The 13th
It's Friday the 13th.

13 "What Guys Think Links" For Friday The 13th

How important is a first kiss? Do men settle? And more, straight from the minds of men.

The perfect first kiss, made easy. He wants her to think it's just a booty call situation, but he has real feelings. How do you know if your guy is settling for you? Will a guy ALWAYS ask out a chick he digs? Do guys like to watch porn solo or with a partner? A product that will make Skype sex WAY more interesting. The practicality of long-distance relationships. Do NOT see Blue Valentine on date night. What to think about the final resting place of male reproductive fluid. Jay-Z is not a role model for your love life.

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Good-bye, walks of shame. Hello, romantic breakfasts together!

How To Meet A Guy Who Wants More Than Sex -- At A Bar!

Not every guy at the bar is looking to get laid. Here are 7 ways to filter out sleazy men at bars.

It can happen. If you're at a bar packed with 300 people, not everybody in there is just looking to get laid. You're not, so there's your proof.

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If you love someone, there is no excuse for cheating. Right?

What Guys Think Links: Can You Love Someone If You Cheat On Them?

And, how to get him to stop watching porn. Good luck with that.

If you love someone, there is no excuse for cheating on them... Right? What sex is really like after having a baby. How to get him to quit porn. Don't focus on your guy's shortcomings. What he really thinks after a first date. What happens when sex makes her say things she doesn't mean? If your guy is a tad immature, cut him some slack. Guess what, being a little juvenile, here and there, is a great trait in a man. Harrumph.

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This guy really likes himself.

Study Says Men Are More Vain Than Women

Men spend more time primping than women. This may be true in England, where the study was done...

It's redemption time, ladies! A new study has found that men take longer than women to get ready. I'm thrilled with the news and I'll probably throw it in some future boyfriend's face, but I'm not sure I believe it.

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Rule #1 of Guy Code: You do not talk about Guy Code.

Guy Code: 8 Rules Men Live By (That They Don't Tell You About)

#GuyCode is trending on Twitter, so we rounded up our favorite love and dating rules from guys.

What are the rules of Guy Code? We decided to round up some #GuyCode tweets that make us feel warm and fuzzy about men.

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Can you tell the difference between a nice guy and a total jerk?

2 Types Of Men You Should Always Avoid [EXPERT]

Ladies, stop spending your youth with bad boys and find yourself a decent fella!

Today's single young lady is faced with a myriad of options for her love life. Whether she lives in a big city or a rural area, she can use the internet to find countless men who are looking for everything from casual dating to long term relationships and marriage. She can go to singles events, attend events that aren't marketed as singles events but are really singles events, and even guarantee that she meets a set number of men at, say, a speed dating event.

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What His Favorite Cocktail Says About Him

Look no further than the drink in a man's hand to discover clues about his personality.

Gin & tonic guys are "often the guys who get thrown out of the bar then appear a few weeks later as if nothing ever happened," says an expert. What's your guy's signature drink? Check out Glo's slideshow and find out what it says about him.

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3 Phrases That Make Men More Attentive

A little bit of appreciation goes a long way.

Every so often, when I write articles or posts about pleasing a man, I get lots of flak, but there is a huge difference between building up the person you love and being a doormat. Women who refuse to use the simple phrases I'm about to share with you for fear of being subservient to their man will either end up alone (because the man left or never even committed in the first place) or miserable (because if he does stay, he's a spineless pushover in need of a mega injection of self-esteem) or he'll ignore them.

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Men Think Discussing Relationship Problems Is A Waste Of Time

It's not that guys are scared to talk about their problems: They just don't feel like it.

Trying to get your guy to tell you what's bothering him? Wondering why he doesn't seem interested in hearing about your horrible day? Don't worry, ladies: It's not that your boyfriend doesn't care or that he's trying to seem strong. According to a new study, it's just that most males think discussing problems is a waste of time.