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If a man tells you he's not boyfriend material, believe him. Plus, five other verbal red flags.
When you've got it bad for someone, it's tempting to shut off logic and ignore the questionable.
You may want to focus on the good (He called! He asked me to dinner! He picked up the check!) and glaze over all that happened in between. We're very happy he figured out how to use the phone and that you're eating well, but listen up to some of the verbal red flags dribbling out of his mouth between bites. If he utters any of the below, view in the same vein as a "low battery" warning on your iPhone. Indeed, your listening … Read More
When does devotion to the one you are with become overkill? Is it really possible to be too loving?
Give advice or see what others had to say here: Can a man be too loving?
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Featuring Love and Dating Expert Dr. Diana Kirschner http://www.lovein90days.com
What men find truly hot and sexy might come as a surprise.
As impressionable young girls brainwashed by images of Pam Anderson (and slack jawed by her effect on men), many of us (foolishly) employed questionable clothing in the name of male approval. Got breasts? Let 'em pop, baby. Dress? Hike that hemline so high that sitting doubles as a gyno appointment. No bra, no problem. Too tight? Nay. Not tight enough. Dress Your Way to Better Sex
We were right, of course. Many a man's eye got a free all-day pass at our (practically) naked bodies. But oh how angry had we known an outfit out of Pam … Read More
Dating in the workplace can be tricky. Here, Matt and Tamsen give advice on office romance.
See what others had to say and give advice here: Should I start a relationship with a guy at work?
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Featuring America's Love Experts Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal. http://www.askmattandtamsen.com
A few clues as to why he's not into you. Hint: it really is not about you.
It's been years since we all watched in horror as Jack Berger explained to Miranda she would never hear from the guy she was hoping would call her back. That guy was, in fact, just not that into her. "Fascinating," Miranda told Berger. "Tell me more."
The Sex and The City episode that started the whole He's Just Not That Into You bandwagon has yet to lose speed. In fact, women are more eager than ever to get to the bottom of why they were dumped. Dumped? 10 Healthy Ways To Heal
No longer content to just … Read More
We love men, but we don't adore all their habits.
Guys, we love you. You make our hearts swoon, you're the fathers of our children, you are advisers, companions and friends, but there are certain gender-specific things you do that drive women nuts. For example, leaving the toilet seat up? We know this is a clichéd male complaint, but seriously. It's rude. Your momma raised you wrong if you find it hard to flush and lower before leaving the bathroom.
With sweet smiles on our faces and love in our hearts, we present a list of habits, fashion decisions and other things you do that the world would (most likely) be … Read More
If you haven't already, you must. Take our word on this one.
Geeky men are the best kept secret in the dating world. We've hoarded this info for years, but since spring is here and the weather is finally lightening and we're feeling generous, we'll share. Listen up as we pass along this kernel of wisdom to you, dear readers.
We are well aware some of you have probably avoided the affections of nerdy men as if each were infected with asymptomatic leprosy. Instead, you likely make a beeline for the David Beckham doppelgänger who hasn't looked in your direction once.You (may) also then accept consistent slipshod behavior from … Read More
Bat an eye at a married guy without becoming a home-wrecker.
Before getting your moral molars all impacted, we'd like to make clear that we're not endorsing having an affair or ruining a perfectly good marriage (or an imperfect one, for that matter).
Whether single or taken, flirting is fun. Getting hitched helps out in the tax and health care departments, but married social life can start to feel like a blur of "dinner at the Newman's" and "girls' nights out." We already know that flirting at the office helps business and is good for substance-free spirit-lifting. Unlike flirting with single blokes, hair flips and … Read More
Is your man a Nokia or an iPhone?
Sex is kinda like a cell phone. You can live without it, but in the end, would you really want to? Like our cell phones, we all end up taking what we can get in a pinch. We may not be happy with the phone (or person) we choose, but sometimes anything can be better than nothing.I've taken the liberty to analyze the various sexual shenanigans we get ourselves into, and I think I've come onto something. I'm starting to think that our sexual partners closely resemble that of our cellular telephone devices. Think I'm full of s**t? Well … Read More
Forget the prenup. Can your relationship benefit from a set of emotional and behavioral rules?
When Madonna and Guy Ritchie split at the end of 2008, the tabloids rejoiced. What fodder to keep churning out rumor after incredulous rumor. The most salacious of them all involved what the media called a "marriage pact." Supposedly devised by the couple's marriage therapist, the contract of sorts was meant to solidify their bond and open up communication. But what it did, in fact, was send the tabloid world into a tailspin.
"Devote time to our sexual expressiveness."
"We will not use sex as a stick to beat one another."
"If we are arguing, I will not shout, but … Read More