Have you found the perfect guy, but the sex is awful? Should you settle for almost perfect?
Are you looking for a man who has everything? Are you willing to compromise if he's great everywhere else except the bedroom? Well don't, because sex is too important! Kim Cattrall Says Bad Sex Ruined Her Marriages
In this video, YourTango expert and therapist Carin Goldstein recommends patience. Don't settle for second rate sex. You can either take the time to improve or move on to someone with more natural ability. After all, no one wants cheese whiz after they have tasted real cheddar.
A new survey suggests that atheists and agnostics have better sex than religious people.
Religion might offer scores of personal benefits, but it looks like a great sex life isn't one of them. According to psychologist Darrel Ray from the University of Kansas, religious people suffer intense guilt during and after intercourse. Those devoted to their religion experienced regret after climaxing. Atheists and agnostics, on the other hand, boasted satisfying sex lives.
Loving yourself is a prerequisite for co-creating a loving relationship.
Loving yourself is a prerequisite for co-creating a loving relationship.
Pinkee here~ For those of you out there who are single, or who may be in relationship, today I am going to address the issue of loving yourself. As we have said many times on the show, it is a prerequisite for co-creating a loving relationship. In particular, I want to talk about how you can love your physical body.
7 things about intimacy that men love (almost) as much as actual sex.
The rumors are true: Men love sex. It would be a mistake, however, to think that the ONLY thing we like about sex is the actual intercourse. Here's six other things about intimacy that we like (almost) as much:
1. Cuddling
True. Guys like cuddling. It makes us feel big and strong and all "providey" to wrap a woman up in our arms. HowAboutWe: Why Sex Really Does Change Everything
Physical and emotional issues after a mastectomy are very difficult to deal with.
Sex after a mastectomy is a thorny issue, not just because of the actual trauma imposed on the body by the surgery, but because of a woman’s mental and emotional state following the removal and then reconstruction of her breasts. Depending on how she feels about her body post-surgically, it may take a woman months, if not longer, to feel comfortable engaging in sexual intimacy again.
Looking for good sex? All you need is love and commitment.
The Archives of Sexual Behavior has released a new study that says men and women are more satisfied having sex out of love and commitment, rather than for material gain or to achieve success.
As a woman, and a whole lot of one at that, even though you've already taken me home and gotten me naked, I still need to hear that you are ready for this jelly. Say something nice. Otherwise, I'll think you're not telling me how nice my booty is because you don't like what you see. I swear, I'm not normally so insecure, but when I drop my dress, you need to start the sweet talkin'. Even if it's a lie and you're glad I turned the lights off, just tell me I'm pretty. You gotta do that, gentlemen, and eight more things during sex besides get off...
Lila here~ I just read about another sex survey recently conducted by Indiana University. In the study, 85% of men reported that their partner had climaxed the last time they had sex. However, only 64% of women surveyed said they had reached orgasm the last time they had sex. That’s a pretty big gap between the men’s perception and the women’s reality if you ask me.
Sex positions all couples should mix into their repertoire.
While some couples may think the key to great sex is to stock up on Kama Sutra books and experiment with complicated pretzel-like positions, sex author Ian Kerner doesn't think couples should have to try that hard to have mind-blowing sex. In fact, those reading will be shocked to learn that Kerner—who has published six books dedicated to the pursuit of satisfying sex—thinks some of the more basic sex positions are best.
For great sex, with or without the big explosions, add some sensuality to your love life.
When you're first dating, you don't know when or even if you're going to make love. The anticipation is exciting, and you often spend quality time kissing and building up to that moment
when you finally "do it."
