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Don't be this guy on Valentine's Day.

Don't be this guy on Valentine's Day.

True stories of Valentine's gifts gone wrong.

Eddie and Kristen went to college together and had been dating for a couple of years. They both lived on campus but were heading back to visit Eddie’s family for the weekend to celebrate his dad’s 50th birthday. It happened to be Valentine’s Day weekend, so when Eddie arrived to pick Kristen up, he brought her a gift. It was the newest, trendiest Valentine’s gift, flowers inside a balloon. It was all the craze at the mall. And Kristen loved it. The balloon was clear with white flowers printed on it, and inside were red roses.

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Teddy bears are cute gifts... for children.

10 Gifts NOT To Give Her On Valentine's Day [PHOTOS]

Ten gifts NOT to get a woman for Valentine's Day, plus 10 ideas for what to get her instead.

Let's face it, guys. You never want to end up in your girlfriend or wife's proverbial doghouse, but Valentine's Day might be the worst possible night to spend sleeping on the couch. One way to ensure you stay in your lady's good graces is to make sure you buy her a great gift.

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What makes a woman smile?

30 Ways To Make A Woman Smile

What things do men do that make women truly happy?

Want to make a woman truly happy? It's not as hard as you think it is. But a lot of men still seem to struggle when it comes to knowing how to please a woman, so we've made a list of 30 entire things men can do that are practically guaranteed to make any woman smile. So now you have no excuse, dudes! The list was inspired by the Twitter trending topic #30WaysToMakeAGirlSmile.

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Are you ready for a happier relationship?

Relationship Rehab: 12 Steps To Becoming A Happier Couple In 2012

Your 12-step program to a better, healthier relationship.

The best way to have a happy relationship is to keep working on it, so even if you're not in a relationship rut, follow these 12 tips from our staff and you'll keep being happy!

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Someone needs to wean himself.

Does He Have Mommy Issues?

He talks about her often. In fact, we have a lot in common.

I was talking to a relationship counselor about some of the guys I've dated, and she was particularly interested in the one who seemed, on paper, the most different from me. "I was very comfortable with him. I could be myself around him. The day-to-day things were easy. We liked the same music. We drank the same beer. Our interests and lifestyles were very similar. We both volunteered. We were both close with our families. I got along with his brother." None of this seemed alarming or interesting to the counselor.

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Not acceptable, even if you're checking @YourTango. #ridiculous #dealbreaker #comeonnow

Who On Earth Checks Facebook Or Twitter While Having Sex?

No one @YourTango would EVER tweet during sex. #sex #study #socialmedia #obviousthings

In a perfect, sexually satisfied world, people would give up just about anything to do the deed. "The dishes need to be done? Let's have a quickie first, honey. Need to update your Facebook status? Not until you reach a climax, mister!"

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A truly great date can enhance your relationship at any stage.

Have You Been On A Great Date Lately?

Take the Good in Bed survey about date nights and receive a free ebook!

Have you been on a great date lately? A truly great date is all about connecting with your partner, feeling closer and enhancing your relationship. The sex-advice site Good in Bed believes that "sometimes it takes extra effort to maintain a romantic relationship." To find out more about your romantic habits, they're launching a new survey on how you navigate "date nights" in your relationship.

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Look ma, we're a real couple! Really!

Temporary Holiday Boyfriends: WTF?

You know love is dead when people start advertising for holiday significant others on Craigslist.

Surprisingly, or maybe unsurprisingly, some singles are looking for temporary relationships for the holiday season. Apparently, it's fine to be single all year long, but when Christmas, Hanukkah or whatever your holiday jam is rolls around, you best be coupled up, sister. And since you can find pretty much everything else on Craigslist, you might as well find a short-term fella to bring home to mom and dad.

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Holiday gifts for your boyfriend or girlfriend!

Holiday Gift Guide For Every Love Stage: Long-Term Relationship

Perfect holiday gifts if you've been in a relationship for a year or more.

The holidays are coming up, so of course you're looking for that perfect gift for your boyfriend or girlfriend. You've been dating for awhile now, so you want to put some extra effort into showing them you care (and that you know what they like!)

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Men and women are like apples and oranges. Don't try to compare them.

Your Man Isn't Your Girlfriend & Other Love Lessons [EXPERT]

Why didn't he call? Your guide to understanding what men mean.

My idea for today's post came from a seminar I hosted last week called "Making Sense of Men." It was co-led by a trainer for PAX Programs International, which is in the business of educating women about men. If you haven't familiarized yourself with PAX, which is the brilliant work of Alison Armstrong, I can't recommend it enough. I attended my first course with them 10 years ago, and it was a life-changing experience.

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It's 11/11/11!

11 Things A Good Boyfriend Would Never Ask You To Do

Just in time for 11/11/11.

We've all been in relationships where, at times, we've felt more like a mom or a secretary than a significant other. While we understand that healthy relationships require compromises, we've compiled a list of favors that good boyfriends know better than to consistently request. If you're constantly taking on any of the items on this list (especially with any hint of resentment), it's time to get your guy to lend a hand.