What's your type? Tall, dark and handsome, with a good sense of humor? Yeah, right. Lemondrop: Is Instant Lust a Dating Must?

According to a new poll, women may say that's what they want, but what they really get hot for is a slightly chunky, hairy guy with a propensity to cry during movies. Or so 2,500 women told one polling firm.

The data collected by onepoll.com found that "a little stubble" is women's number one turn-on, followed by a "geeky" personality and a hairy chest. (Gray hair and crying during movies were also among the secret peccadilloes.) Women … Read More

Love experts Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal answer a classic love question from Ask YourTango, where users give and receive relationship advice. You have a main squeeze, he says he loves you, but does he mean it? Watch to find out.

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Featuring America's love experts Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal.
  

Love Bytes: Five must-click sex, love and relationship links.

Interested in keeping a summer fling just that? Follow these tips to keep it cool and casual. [TresSugar]

Forgive a cheater? You decide! [College Candy]

It's like having your heart ripped out of your chest and tapped danced on by a sumo wrestler in stilettos – getting cheated on. And as if that's not bad enough, the horrible feeling of being cheated on often comes along with it's mustache-twirling evil twin – the repentant cheater – putting you in the awkward position of having to decide an important personal issue while a … Read More

Love Bytes: three must-click sex, dating and relationship links.

So you want to Google your ex (or already have). Read on. [Divine Caroline]

At some point, don't we all wonder, whether we loved them, hated them, broke their hearts, or had ours broken, what he's been up to? Wondered how many kids he has? Wondered if he’s thought of you? And come on, if you haven’t thought, "I wonder if his wife is fat?" then you should stop reading this now, because clearly, you are too good of a person to be googling your ex.

Just because everyone says it's hip … Read More

You've been compared to Angelina Jolie. He's more of a Steve Carell. Should you take him up on his lunch-date offer?This is the dilemma I have often faced during my college years (aside from the part about looking like Angie), and I faced it once again last Thursday.I was pre-gaming with some guy friends, their friends, and the friends of those friends, when one of them (unfortunately not the Abercrombie model look-alike with whom I'd been flirting) came up to me and asked, "Do you remember when you turned me down at Shooters (a local club)?" My face turned … Read More

Geek chic is so prevalent these days, it's nearly cliché.

So, when checking out SweetonGeeks.com, a site billing itself as "A Dating Space Where Gray Matters," I was expecting to encounter a bunch of trendy geek touches, like thick-rimmed glasses and Battlestar Galactica discussion forums.

Mensa ads on the home page and a browse through the site's video links (a girl completing a Rubicks Cube in 17 seconds, an animated "Code Monkey" music video) assured me SweetonGeeks is not for "feeks" (faux geeks), and that only the truly nerdy need apply. Adding further to its geek cred is the founder, … Read More

It's standing room only at the one-year anniversary of the Secret Science Club in Brooklyn, New York. A crowd of about two hundred fills the dark downstairs lounge at Union Hall, a bi-level bar, and there are hip 20- and 30 somethings perched on every available surface, cradling PBRs or tonight's drink special—The Scientific Method.

At 8 P.M. the Superstar-of-Science Lecture will begin, but first tonight's host has a few announcements. "Same time, next month, geologist and NASA researcher Michael Rampino will be here to speak about mass extinctions and the history of life," he intones.

"Oooh, cool!" squeal four … Read More