fatherhood
Five reasons men in their 20's may want children as much as women.
It's a common stereotype that guys in their 20's are just interested in sowing their wild oats: drinking cheap beer, hanging out with their bros and having massive amounts of random sex. Not so true. A recent study by the Guttmacher Institute revealed that 53 percent of men in the 18-29 range (as opposed to 52 percent of women) would like to have children if circumstances allowed. Among men 25 and older, the number jumps to two thirds.
Scary fact: The study showed that a surprising number of young men didn't know much about contraception and conception.
Interesting fact: … Read More
A growing trend shows that men become better parents post-divorce.
If divorce is in the future of duplicitous two-timers Gov. Mark Sanford to reality TV's Jon Gosselin, these men will have to navigate co-parenting. However, a growing trend shows that many men become better parents post-divorce, to the surprise of ex-wives who find it difficult to grasp that a man who wasn't a good husband can indeed be a good father. Read: How To Say "Kids, We're Getting Back Together"
Take the example of Peter Giles.
When Peter Giles' three daughters were toddlers, work consumed him at the expense of family life. The New York businessman … Read More
A couple's difficult journey towards having a baby: Part 2.
Part two of a four-part series on male infertility. Click here to read parts one, three and four.
Right around this time, my Amy and I decided to move to California. Perhaps a fresh start, a fresh perspective would help.
My wife's doctor in NY sent her to a doctor in Beverly Hills, who sent her to a fertility specialist, who sent me a doctor whose first name sounded a lot like "Pappy." He was the doctor to see for guys whose guys need to get going.
Pappy had a slightly goofy personality. … Read More
A couple's difficult journey towards having a baby: Part 1.
Part one of a four-part series on male infertility. Click here to read parts two, three and four.
When I look back on the courtship that led to my marriage, I fast forward through a carousel of emotionally charged moments: the night we met, the night we first slept together (not the same), a postcard she sent me, our first weekend away together, a Ray Charles concert, a birthday party (mine), a birthday party (hers), a Hamptons summer rental, a Sam Cooke album, an Al Green concert, a vacation in Europe where I almost proposed but didn't, … Read More
The celebrity dads we think deserve recognition this Father's Day.
In honor of Father's Day, we've collected the top 8 famous fathers who we think deserve recognition this year. These fathers juggle busy careers, relationships and the lives of their children with ease and grace. And most of them don't look half bad while doing it!
Here's our list of the top famous fathers of the year (so far):
President Obama. Not only does he run the country, he makes time to take the girls to school and Michelle out on dates. Read: 4 Obama-Inspired Date Ideas
Liam Neeson. After losing wife, Natasha Richardson, in March 2009 after … Read More
Becoming a father and stay-at-home dad puts a strain on a couple's marriage.
As with all couples, the birth of our son, Emerson, on April 15, 2008, changed our family forever. For my wife and I, it ushered in an era of marital strife that we'd never experienced. Before Emerson's arrival we'd been able to focus exclusively on each other. Even without kids, our marriage required hard work, and we were only balancing the needs of each other. Now we had to consider him as well.
I had grown up in a service-oriented house, where actions were our way of showing love; my parents appreciated and rewarded obedience. As the middle child … Read More
A father imagines his daughter's future boyfriends.
SWF seeks an out-of-shape, weekend-binge-drinking man-child who still goes to KISS concerts and cannot kick his comic book habit even though he's well into his 40s. Must be choked by the umbilical cord of a domineering mother and live in a state of perpetual Catholic guilt that flares up when he misses Mass on Sunday or lingers too long on at a nasty corner of the World Wide Web. Lasting three minutes in the sack mandatory; five minutes a plus.
Good God.
My elder daughter, who's 12, is just beginning to show an interest in boys, and since it's every man's … Read More
More than two dozen men are holding their breath to find out.
Lindsay Lohan is wondering where she was seven weeks ago and more importantly, who she was sleeping with. Between updating her online dating profile, rediscovering heterosexualism and vacationing with friends, the star's been so busy she forgot to keep track of who may have gotten her pregnant.
That's right. Pregnant.
According to blogger Ian Halperin, a close source confirmed that Lindsay is indeed seven weeks pregnant. "I swear she's carrying," the source said. "She’s going through big emotional turmoil. She’s not sure if she’ll have it or go through with an abortion that she booked to … Read More
Forgiveness happens in different ways for men and women.
Take a moment to recall a tiff with a lover, friend or family member that was as much your own fault as the other party's. If you're a woman, chances are thinking about your actions in that scenario will make you feel guilty and defensive, whereas a man will more likely feel empathy and forgiveness, according to 13 years of forgiveness research at Case Western Reserve University in Cleveland, Ohio.
While forgiveness for men happens through putting themselves in the other's shoes--which would explain why becoming a father often helps a guy forgive his own father's imperfections--it seems women take a … Read More
Confused about your role as a new father? Cathi and Dan advise.
For the best advice on sex, love, dating and relationships we ask two experts with personal experience. Cathi Hanauer is the author, most recently, of Sweet Ruin, a novel about love, marriage, and adultery. Daniel Jones is the editor of both the "Modern Love" column for The New York Times, and Modern Love, an anthology derived from the column. They've been married for 15 years, and together they provide a his and hers take on relationship questions. This round: fatherhood responsibilities.
Question: As I lie here at 3:42 a.m. thinking about my breastfeeding wife down the hall losing sleep, I … Read More