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Tips for telling if you're dating a foot fetishist and how you should handle it.
I guess I'm what you'd call a foot fetishist, although this designation is more complex than you probably think. Most foot fetishists are not perverts, sexual deviants, or anything to be afraid of. Fetishes Make The World Go Round
From what I've seen, public mentions of the phrase "foot fetish" are generally followed by giggles and a short discussion of some guy on the news who got arrested for hiding under strange women's cars so he could get a brief lick of their feet while they loaded groceries into the trunk. (That's the media for you.) And apparently there … Read More
Embracing your sexuality—even when hairless, throwing up and left ravaged by a mastectomy.
It's a common perception that only older women get breast cancer—old enough that they don't really care if they ever have sex again. And boobs? Whatever, take 'em… They already nursed their kids and the ta-tas are just getting saggy anyway. Right?
Wrong! I'm 26, and I have cancer in my breast. And no matter what age, women still want to be treated like the gorgeous creatures we are, even when hairless, probably throwing up and left ravaged by a mastectomy.
When I discovered my lump at 24, I was nearly scoffed out of a male breast cancer specialist's … Read More
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What do your sexual fantasies say about you? [Lemondrop]
As the saying goes, the biggest sex organ is your brain. No love life, no matter how sweet, is complete without a little imagination. That's where fantasies come into play. But what do your fantasies "mean?" We asked three sexperts...
Boyfriend starts texting your friend, should you be worrying? [Tres Sugar]
Why sex may be more desirable to men than it is for women [Huffington Post]
Four Ways Dating Has Changed [Limelife]
Have you considered the past five … Read More
What do you do when your man doesn't know how to treat you the way you want to be treated in bed?
In this week's Savage Love, a young woman writes to Dan Savage about her desire for rough sex and her new boyfriend's seeming inability to give it to her.
"The last guy I dated used to toss me around like a rag doll," she explains, "and I miss being dominated." Why We Fantasize And What's Normal
In order to remedy the situation, the woman has hatched a scheme: have a threesome with her new boyfriend and her ex-boyfriend, so that the new boyfriend can learn the basics of bondage, rape fantasies, etc. The new boyfriend, she tells … Read More
Every couple needs to change up their sexual routine every now and again so it doesn't become just that—a routine. Sexual experimentation is key for keeping a long-term relationship fresh, fun and fulfilling. Opening up about your desires can also bring you and your partner closer together. "Experimenting with each other requires a willingness to be vulnerable, which improves intimacy," says Mort Fertel, Baltimore marriage counselor and creator of the Marriage Fitness Program.
What types of sex might you and your partner be missing out on? Click the gallery below to learn what every couple should try.
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Sexual fantasies: why do we have them, and what's normal?
If you want to enliven your next dinner party, bring out this question: what was the subject of your last sexual fantasy?
Forks and jaws might drop, but only because almost everyone in attendance will be recreating the scene last played in their head, or claiming that they don't fantasize, or claiming to only fantasize about their partner. However, chances are everyone at the table (assuming you're not dining at a senior center) has erotic and illicit fantasies, and does so on a normal basis. But rarely, if ever, do we want to talk … Read More
Moms like Twilight while love comes from an ad with a couple clicks.
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Robert Pattinson is what mothers' fantasies are made of. [Huffington Post]
I am shocked by this and a little disturbed by this inconsistency in my feminist politics and here's why: These books portray the archetypal barely-civilized man lusting, actually hungering, for a frail and naïve woman. She loves him because he's physically superior—tall, broad-shouldered, the whole Greek god thing, he knows her in a deep way that the rest of the superficial world has overlooked, and best of all, he can beat up anybody who messes with her.
Love in a couple … Read More