If you want to enliven your next dinner party, bring out this question: what was the subject of your last sexual fantasy?

Forks and jaws might drop, but only because almost everyone in attendance will be recreating the scene last played in their head, or claiming that they don't fantasize, or claiming to only fantasize about their partner. However, chances are everyone at the table (assuming you're not dining at a senior center) has erotic and illicit fantasies, and does so on a normal basis. But rarely, if ever, do we want to talk … Read More

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What do you do when you tell him you want to talk honestly about your fantasies but when he spills guts you're upset or offended? [DearSugar]

Smoking marijuana increases the chances of testicular cancer. Bummer for him... twice as much pot for you! [Asylum]

This Valentine's Day woo him with the scent of old books. [Buzzfeed]

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Men's Health recently published a list of women's sexual fantasies that weren't so sexy. The Frisky wrote a hilarious rebuttal about how we don't actually want to do naked yoga poses or be eaten like an apple. [The Frisky]

Perhaps this woman didn't understand what she was saying when she said that Barack and Michelle Obama enjoy fisting. Or perhaps she has special access to the Presidential bedroom... [Buzzfeed]

Science and math prove that you not having sex on the … Read More

It's the classic sex act every woman hopes she's never asked to perform."Tonight, I'd like to pretend we're strangers—you'll be wearing a gigantic raccoon costume answering to the name 'Mayuka,' and I'll be in a studded leather diaper—we'll meet at a boarding school for kid wizards and spank each other with stiletto heels while Teletubbies plays in the background. And let's film it!" OK, maybe your partner has never approached you with a bedroom request quite that elaborate… at least, one would hope he hasn't. But chances are, at some point he'll reveal a desire to you … Read More

I'm embarrassed to admit that I was an "Insert Groom" bride-to-be. You know the type: the woman who fantasizes about her wedding in such detail that when she finally meets Mr. Right, and he proposes, planning the event is a snap.

In just two weeks, I'd booked all the big-ticket items. All I had to do for the rest of our engagement, I figured, was register for gifts, be feted by friends, and, of course, revel in my luck. I'd kissed a lot of frogs, so I knew how right my fiancé was for me.

When I started to … Read More