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The One and Only Reason Men Cheat Revealed

Men cheat because of their biology, sex-addiction and even "evolution" right? Wrong! Keep reading..

As "The Pro Marriage Counselor" I have to tell you: There have been so many pop-articles recently about why men and woman cheat. These articles cite everything from so called “evolutionary psychology” studies to the unqualified opinions of celebrities to the actual North American and European infidelity rates. But just because Kim Kardashian or Ashton Kutcher and others say it, doesn't mean it's true!

Dr. Drew's Lifechangers

Need Affair Advice Now? Ask A YourTango Expert On Dr. Drew

Hurry! Love expert Charles Orlando is taking questions for Dr. Drew's new show until noon Sept. 13.

YourTango Expert and author of The Problem With Women...Is Men, Charles Orlando, is looking for a couple to accompany him on the new CW show, Dr. Drew's Lifechangers (premieres Sept. 19). Interested couples should contact Charles Orlando at charlesjorlando@gmail.com by noon Eastern time tomorrow (Tuesday, Sept. 13).

The Reluctant Expert

The Reluctant Expert

Sometimes life decides how we will most be of service to others~turning tragedy into gifts.

We don't always get to choose the circumstances of our lives. Sometimes shit happens. When you go through experiences of chronic illness, caregiving or loss you can't help but be changed by them. They break you or they reveal to you inner strength you did not know you had. I love having a plan. I do well with setting goals and working toward them. I've got a pretty high degree of self-discipline and focus. But when life shook my world upside down all I could do was choose to make the most of it.

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Your Future Husband? How To Decide He's The One [VIDEO]

Some of our favorite love experts weigh in on the most-asked relationship questions.

We asked the top love experts to give the final word on the most-asked relationship and dating questions. In this episode of "The Final Word," we asked them what qualifications should determine if a person is "The One." They offered some surprising insight into this common question.

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How to Have a Female Orgasm [VIDEO]

Sex expert Ian Kerner sheds light on the female orgasm.

In the latest video episode of Ask YourTango—where readers seek out advice on love and relationships—sex expert Ian Kerner gives advice to a woman who is having trouble achieving an orgasm with her boyfriend. His number one tip? Relax! And remember that intercourse alone might not always bring you to the point of no return.

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Join YourTango's 31-Day Sex Challenge This October

YourTango's experts are hosting a 31-day better sex challenge—mark your calendars!

We here at YourTango have gathered our very own relationship experts to launch the "31 Days to a Better Sex Life" challenge. Starting October 1, readers will have the opportunity to actively create more vivacious and healthier sex lives with the help of YourTango Experts, a consulting network of thousands of relationship professionals.

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Do You Trust Celebrity Relationship Experts?

How do these five celebrities do when doling out relationship advice? You be the judge.

Here's a round-up of five celebrities turned relationship experts. We have Heidi Klum and Seal's new show on Lifetime, Jennifer Love Hewitt's self-help book, Ice-T's wife CoCo's blog, Jerry Seinfeld on The Marriage Ref and Teri Hatcher's website and book.

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Soul Mates: 10 Steps To A Spiritual Relationship

10 steps to building a spiritual relationship with a soul mate, whether married, taken or single.

Love. Sex. Boys. Girls. The same problems and frustrations again and again. We've been there countless times, wondering when we'll find that ONE, that perfect person we want to stay with forever and ever. Even in a relationship, we reach a point where the person we're with doesn't feel as special as he or she used to. What if you could guarantee a spark that lasted—no matter who you were with—and a happier life to go along with it? The ancient teachings of Buddhism suggest that we can do just that if we transform our relationships into spiritual partnerships. If we use our relationships to make us wiser, kinder and more compassionate, we can actually change how they function. Whether you're in a relationship or seeking a new one, here are 10 methods for building a spiritual partnership.

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7 Ways To Show Love Without Words

How do you show love without words? Experts sound in.

Saying "I love you" is an excellent way to show someone you care about them. But sometimes words are not enough. Here, seven YourTango ProConnect experts explain how to show your love without using words.