It is a truth universally acknowledged that "sex with an ex" falls somewhere between "crush on a co-worker" and "affair with a married man" on the great Don't Go There continuum—an emotional quagmire, best avoided if you know what's good for you. You're playing with fire, psychologists admonish would-be repeat offenders in their advice columns and call-in shows. It will only bring back a flood of emotions. Find someone new and keep that door shut, girlfriend. Nerve: Sex, Lies & Pubic Hair On The First Date

With all due respect, I think the advice columnists are wrong: breakup sex is … Read More

There may be a new sheriff coming to the wild, wild web. You probably don't know about the curious case of Liskula Cohen, but you soon may.

Liskula Cohen is a model (you have seen her all up in Vogue, son). Photographs of Liskula Cohen appeared on a Google-housed blog entitled "Skanks in NYC." (There was once a video of Facebook etiquette rules insisting that you don't start hate groups, which someone obviously didn't think applied to her specific situation.) Captions of the photographs were less than flattering and used words like "whore," "psychotic," "lying," and "prestidigitator*." The five … Read More

Robert's ex, via National Enquirer, reports that sex with this hottie is right-out electrifying. As if women needed another reason to worship the always brooding Robert Pattinson. And if Robert's mother is reading this: you might want to refrain from continuing on.

"We just had this chemistry between us that made our kisses amazing. I felt electricity go between us!" Robert's unnamed ex told the Enquirer (via The Blemish). "I'm really passionate, as is he. That's why, no matter how much we fought, it was always amazing in bed!"Read: How To Kiss Well

While constant fighting … Read More

Don't. Call. Me. Ever. Again. Who among us hasn't uttered these five words to a boyfriend in the heat of a breakup? But you may find yourself missing the guy and wondering if things could have been different. Your ex is familiar territory, but is it a country that you should consider revisiting?

Should You Get Back Together?

"Start with an honest review of why the relationship ended," suggests Lou Paget, AASECT Certified Sex Educator and best-selling author of The Great Lover Playbook. "Behavior speaks louder than words."

There are some circumstances under which you should never try … Read More

One recent night at the bar, as I was sipping on my Long Island, a nearby guy began hitting on me. He asked me to dance, and my inebriated-state told me that this was a good idea. However, upon our dancing (read: trying to maintain balance in heels) and conversing (read: finding out basic facts), he told me casually that he used to see one of my sorority sisters. He said that he was surprised he hadn't met me before, as he had slept at the house so often.

Red Flag. Peace out, playa.

He seemed a little peeved and surprised … Read More

Love Bytes: three must click sex, dating and relationship links.

She said what in bed? [The Frisky]

Tips for telling your partner you've tested positive for a STD. [College Candy]

There's even the option to send the card anonymously, if you'd like, which eliminates the embarrassment of a face-to-face meeting.  It's also a great option if you aren't on speaking terms with your ex.

What to say when your partner can't let go of an ex. [DivineCaroline]

Today Gawker alerted us to the story of Carol Anne Burger, a Huffington Post blogger who stabbed her ex-lover in the neck with a screwdriver 222 times and shot herself before police could question her. Burger, 57 and her ex, Jessica Kalish, 56, were broken up but for financial reasons were still living together in the condo they'd purchased in 2000. While they worked with a lawyer to sell the house and divide their assets (they were married in 2005), they spent time in opposite sides of the house.  

As reported by the Palm Beach … Read More

Ever wonder what men fantasize about? Over at Glamour's Smitten one guy revealed his frottage fodder. It includes a rotating cast of women, images instead of narrative and a few surprises…

I broke the silence. Alex and I hadn’t spoken since January—the longest we’ve gone without talking in over two years. We didn’t have a big fight or anything, just no reason to contact each other. For a while I hardly noticed the silence. But of course, as soon as I realized it had been as long as it had, the questions started mounting. Why hasn’t he called? Is he mad at me? Should I call him? What’s he been doing for the past two months? It’s an uncomfortable feeling when you realize the man you used to speak to daily … Read More