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February 13: Our Second Annual 'Break Up With Your Ex Day'!
Last chance to Break Up With Your Ex!

February 13: Our Second Annual 'Break Up With Your Ex Day'!

Celebrate on Monday by cutting ties with your ex once and for all with these helpful tips.

Since February 1, we've been offering great tips and advice during our second annual Break Up With Your Ex campaign. Our mission is to encourage the seventy-one percent of our readers who think about their ex "too much" ex to cut the cord and finally move on, and we've dubbed Monday, February 13, the perfect day to do so!

8 Signs You Need To Break Up With Your Ex [EXPERT]
Don't let an ex be your "stop sign" for a new and exciting relationship!

8 Signs You Need To Break Up With Your Ex [EXPERT]

Here are eight truly undeniable signs that you need to break up with your ex.

We get it. Breaking up with your ex and moving forward with your love life is easier said than done. That’s why, we are here to tell you how to perform an “ex-orcism” on yourself. Read on and we assure you that you will feel more confident and ready to finally stop obsessing over someone who is holding you back from finding the man you deserve.

Take Control Of Your 'Parts' To Finally Move On [EXPERT]
Don't be afraid to boss your 'Parts' around! After all, they do work for YOU!

Take Control Of Your 'Parts' To Finally Move On [EXPERT]

Find out why getting over your ex is easier said than done!

Here's a hard truth; are you ready? There are parts of you that guarantee you will never get what you want most. Ever said something like, "Part of me is ready to move on from my ex, but part of me can’t stop obsessing about him or her," or “Part of me is ready for a great relationship, but part of me thinks I don't deserve it yet?” If so, it's because you actually have a lot of "Parts" inside you. Some that are designed to get you what you want most, and others that are designed to stop you from getting those things. You’ve got a myriad of Parts within you. Parts are like worker bees to your queen bee. Each Part works diligently for you, yet each one carries out a differing intention or belief of yours and thus they can be at odds with each other. This very human phenomenon is called a “Parts Conflict.”

10 Ways To Cleanse An Ex From Your Life [EXPERT]
10 tips to help you get over your ex.

10 Ways To Cleanse An Ex From Your Life [EXPERT]

YourTango Experts offer advice on the best ways to get over an ex.

If only "washing a man out of our hair" were as simple as a wash, rinse and repeat cycle. In reality, breaking off attachment to an ex is hard—but not impossible—work. Here are 10 easy-to-follow tips for washing a hard-to-forget ex from your life:  1. Indulge In A "Pity Diet" 

burn your cell phone instead of calling your ex
Destroying your cell phone every time you want to call your ex could get pricey.

5 Emergency Techniques To Use When You Want To Call Your Ex

Thinking of calling your ex? Not so fast!

It's been days or weeks or even months since you and your ex called it quits. And you're fine. You're convinced everything happens for a reason, and you’'l be better off with someone else someday. You rarely even think of him. Until you do.

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When your loved ones don't understand, it can really make you want to pull your hair out!

7 Strategies To State Your Boundaries About Your Ex [EXPERT]

What can you do when loving people around you don't accept your decision to end your relationship?

If you decided to end your relationship, people around you might have a hard time accepting your decision. Of course, they don't know all the details that made you take such a bold step. And it might also be a certain inertia that keep them away from understanding your decision; they could be caught in their own perception about your relationship, or how you should handle it.

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Advice for mending a broken heart.

5 Healthy Ways To Break Up With Your Ex

How to let go of the past and learn to love again.

What happens when you're already broken up, but just can't break up with the past? It's bad enough to end things with a person, but to have to say adieu to memories and the invisible, yet somehow tangible, threads that connect you to a former relationship can be even harder. Here are a few (healthy) ways to break up with your ex.

Break Up With Your Ex
It's time to get rid of your ex once and for all.

12 Reasons To Dump Your Ex

A few favorites from our Break Up With Your Ex contest. Can you do better?

Everyone has a reason to break up with their ex. Sometimes, it's because he's gay and it's definitely time to move on. Othertimes, it's because no matter who you're currently with, your old love is still preventing you from moving on. From now until Feb. 12, we're holding a contest where we are asking you to tell us, in 10 words or less, why you need to break up with your ex. Here are 12 of our favorite entries we've recieved so far.

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Delete your ex from your life by February 13!

The Number-One Reason Not To Be "Friends" With Your Ex

Our friends at MadameNoire.com explain why you should never, ever stay friends with your ex.

They call 'em an "ex" for a reason. And while we'd love to break up with all of our boyfriends and find ourselves on good, positive terms with them soon after, sometimes feelings get in the way, drama ensues, and you find yourself on an irritating emotional rollercoaster you thought you had left behind when the relationship ended.

5 Ways To Get Over Your Ex: Move On Already! (#DumpUrEx)
5 Ways To Get Over Your Ex: Move On Already! (#DumpUrEx)

5 Ways To Get Over Your Ex: Move On Already! (#DumpUrEx) [VIDEO]

Follow these steps to break up with your ex completely and move on to a better you.

In the pre-Internet age, getting over an ex was pretty straightforward. You took his picture off the mantel, avoided places he might be, and gave back that comfy sweatshirt you loved sleeping in (or possibly burned it). 10 Signs You Might Need To Break Up With Your Ex Nowadays, breaking up is a lot more complicated—Facebook and Twitter provide you with up-to-the-minute details about your ex's new life, your cell phone is full of pictures of the two of you together and your iTunes playlist still houses the "For My Greatest Love" playlist.

Break up with your ex
Break up with your ex for good.

5 Steps To Breaking Up With Your Ex

Unfriend your ex...and give yourself a break-over!

Unfriend your ex...and give yourself a break-over! Feb. 13 is the Second Annual Break Up With Your Ex Day, and we've launched BreakUpWithYourEx.com as a resource center to help people move on and forget about their ex — for good — before Valentine's Day.