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Five female-approved pick-up tips we recommend every man follow.
Our good friends Em & Lo informed us yesterday that a wedding band is the #1 male power accessory needed to lure in the ladies. The Frisky: 5 Horrifying Things You'll Learn When Moving In With A Guy
Indeed, a recent study at Oklahoma State University confirms what legions of men have sworn since the beginning of time—women are twice as likely to want a relationship with a man who's already taken. The Frisky: 40 Things Every Woman Should Do Before She Turns 40
While we can't speak for all women on those allegations, we've crafted a single … Read More
Saving yourself but rushing into marriage, plus what we don't understand about men.
Love Bytes: Five must click sex, dating and relationship links.
A Beginner's Guide to Spiritual Sex [Huffington Post]
When we rouse sexual energy, it is like a sleeping serpent come to life: the Kundalini. Sexuality is much more than a physical act; it is energy within our bodies. These are concepts taught in all of the esoteric traditions of sacred sexuality.
Saving yourself for marriage, but rushing to the altar because of it? [TresSugar]
Meet the first hand-powered vibrator. Doesn't that defeat the purpose of having one in the first place, so your hand doesn't have … Read More
Plus dirty dreams, baby daddies, fake orgasms and 10 things not to say to Jewish gal.
Love Bytes: Five must-click sex, love and relationship links.
How can you tell if your boyfriend is a sex addict? [Tres Sugar]
He texts overly sexual things to me. (That's fine, but how about an "I miss you!" every once in a while!) He wants to do rougher things, and although I don't mind that and even find it a turn on, I'm beginning to feel less like a partner to him and more like an object. I know he's really into porn, he masturbates a lot, has had lots of casual flings in the past and I'm beginning to … Read More
It's no surprise that men don't love condoms, but they do agree thin is in.
We all know men aren't huge fans of condoms. What we want to know is—exactly why not?
This week's Wise Guys (very wisely) from Em and Lo enlightened us with the newfound knowledge that men (are you sitting down?) dislike condoms! Yes, reader— it's true. All three men unanimously voted (well the gay guy was an "exclusive bottom" but that's another post altogether) "nay" on the subject of rubbers. Condoms are Great but Protect Your Heart, Too
While all three admitted (begrudgingly and out of obligation) that condoms are "obviously a must" when sport sexing, … Read More
Plus, dealing with divorce, shopping, pulling out and living without oral.
Love Bytes: Five must-click sex, love and relationship links.
What to say when you're fine with being single, but your family is not. [Betty Confidential]
I had recently returned from a family reunion. I went there ecstatic to see everyone and proud to perform a show and tell of my accomplishments: new job, new race time and, most importantly, my new four-inch heels. None of this, however, seemed important in the mind of my relatives. My Great Uncle Larry interrupted my long winded accomplishment spiel to say, "Heidi I am just so disappointed that you don't have a nice man to … Read More
Google, woman-approved pick-up tips, pro athletes and cheating.
Love Bytes: Five must-click sex, love and relationship links.
8 woman-approved pickup tips. [Asylum]
For men, attraction is a knob that can be switched on and off. You see a woman and you are either attracted to her or you're not and once the switch is flipped on, it's not likely to flip off again.
Should the wives of pro athletes, or rock stars and politicians for that matter, expect their husbands to cheat? [Lemondrop]
Do men really enjoy being in a relationship with a woman who is a... really mean person? [Em & Lo]
5 ways Google can … Read More
Plus, how to forgive accidents and appreciating the chubby men of the world.
Love Bytes: Five must-click sex, love and relationship links.
Would you convert to a different religion for love? [Shine]
Like your men with some meat on their bones? Chubby chasers, say hello to this site. [Lemondrop]
Resist the urge to blame others for their mishaps, read "How to Forgive Accidents." [Huffington Post]
In each situation, I could feel the accident-causer bracing against my possible annoyance, and it was very, very hard to resist the temptation to say things like, 'You should've been more careful!' 'Now we're going to have all this hassle to fix this!' 'How could you … Read More
Picking up men, ten things not to say on road trips and figuring out what you want in a guy.
Love Bytes: Five must-click love, sex and relationship links.
Who do you dress for? [TresSugar]
10 things you shouldn't say on a road trip. [Lemondrop]
Tips from men on how to pick up guys at a bar. [Em&Lo]
First, just approach him and strike up some decent general conversation — truthfully, the odds of this being received well are high, even before any chemistry is determined, and you get points already for being outgoing enough. Soon enough, if there’s any semblance of a spark, just come right out and be candid about what you’re looking for, whatever that … Read More
What Dads teach us, prostitutes, and what sighs say.
Love Bytes: Three must-click sex, love and relationship links.
Men, women and the language of sighing. [DivineCaroline]
If men and women don't speak a common language, it is the language of sighs. Any woman knows that a sigh isn't just a sigh. It's a sign.
10 things Dads teach us about sex, without even trying. [EmandLo]
Would you date a man who's paid for sex with a prostitute? [TresSugar]
Dating older, post-breakup hair, and not wanting to marry.
Love Bytes: three must-click sex, love and relationship links.
What should the term be for someone who only dates older? [EmandLo]
Changing your hair post-breakup. Celebs and regular folk alike love to do it. [Lemondrop]
What if I don't want to get married? [DivineCaroline]
Like today, after our wonderful BBQ, my mom began talking about a good friend of hers who just can't seem to find herself a husband. This woman is in her late-forties, is very financially successful, opinionated, and happily single.