dirty talk
Who's your "daddy" in the bedroom?
I am well aware that this predilection elicits a giant "ewwww" from most of the sex-having population, but I have always liked a little "daddy talk" in the bedroom. No, I don't want to have sex with MY father, but using the word, loaded as it is with connotations of power and taboo, gets me unapologetically hot.
According to the recent article "Sick or Sexy? When He's 'Daddy' in the Bedroom," I'm not the only perv enjoying a little faux-incest during sex. MSNBC mostly focuses on new parents who discover their day-to-day nicknames can also spice things … Read More
A few tips on how to talk dirty once already in bed.
This may be too old school for you old fools, but I was just interneting the interweb and bumped into this oldie but goodie of things being said during whoopie-making on Incredimazing (give it a gander, it's a flowchart). That was pretty funny (in both the weird and ha-ha sense). But talking dirty, even if already sexually engaged, is a big turn-on for some. Just not everyone is good at it. Read: Dirty Talk Saved My Relationship
Normally, I'd go the other route and give a list of things that will spoil the moment so you can … Read More
Action figure gifts, why men love your body and romantic dirty talk.
Love Bytes: three must-click love and relationship links.
Gift alert! Most guys played with action figures when they were little, so why not bring him back to childhood while indulging his mature quirkiness? Gifts here for: the Hitchcock fan, the Republican faithful, the East Coast hip hop fan and more. [The Daily Lowdown]
Ten things men love about your body. [Glamour via Shine]
Dealbreaker: the romantic dirty talker. [The Frisky]
One night, he halted a make out session to look deep into my eyes and asked, "Why does kissing you feel so right?"
"Um … … Read More
Talking dirty was just the right spice for one couple's sex life.
It was several years into my current relationship when sex started becoming a mundane activity that was scheduled rather than spontaneous they way it used to be. Quite frankly sex had become about as exciting as chopping broccoli. That all changed one night when I heard something at the beginning of our normal ritualistic once-a-week sex that perked up my ears and libido.
Any talking we had ever done during sex was more or less directional or something along the lines of "is that it, baby?" or "I can't do this with the cat in the room!" We just did … Read More
A couple of loud f*ckers have been read the riot act in Brighton and Hove.
Sweet work, loud f*ckers. Per the Associated Press, a man from a southern England town, Brighton and Hove, has been banned from his girlf's apartment for noisy screwing. Basically, the dude, Adam Hinton, has to stay 110 yards (about 101 meters) from his lady's place (her apartment not her hot spot). The woman, Kerry Norris, has neighbors that don't care for the music, banging headboards, and obscene, dirty talk that accompany his nocturnal (or daytime, we suppose), undercover maneuvers.
We've always thought of banging headboards and filthy, dirty talk as pretty par for the course for people … Read More
Embrace your inner vixen's vocabulary.
Less than 48 hours after meeting Ryan, I was straddling him in a nightclub, giving him my first-ever lap dance. My relationship with him was, from the beginning, more sexually charged than any I'd been in.
On our first date, he gave me a goodnight kiss, along with a two-handed ass squeeze. "I thought he was a bit forward," I wrote in an email to a friend the next day.
It shouldn't have surprised me, then, when our first romp in bed introduced me to the world of dirty talk. Being a writer, I consider myself sensitive to the English … Read More