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4 Quick Tips For A Sexier Voice [EXPERT]

4 Quick Tips For A Sexier Voice [EXPERT]

Your voice can sound naturally sensual and enticing by practicing these easy exercises.

Whether your voice is a delight to the ear, unpleasant to hear or something in between, these easy exercises will help to make it more sexually appealing. And the more you practice, the quicker the transformation.

What Men Really Think About You in the Club

What Men Really Think About You in the Club

Men will consider sleeping with the trashy looking girl, but will never bring her home to mama.

Men and women usually go to the club for vastly different reasons. Men go to the club to find women, find women, and to find women. Women go to the club to sometimes find a man, but also to enjoy themselves by dancing and drinking the night away with friends. Men are reactionary creatures. If you want to know what we think about you at the club, all you need to do is evaluate one thing: Your activity at the club. Men read what women give us to read. It’s as simple as that.

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Love Bytes: Second Marriages Are Just As Doomed As First Ones

Plus, a 40th-birthday threesome, shower sex, and lotsa dirty talk. Hey, it IS Hump Day.

Second marriages are about as likely to survive as first ones. Is forgiveness the key to making marriage last? The economics of sex and commitment. An ode to shower sex. Giving your husband a threesome. And, when dirty talk gets a little awful and a lot sexy.

Americans Love To Talk Dirty

Americans Love To Talk Dirty

80 percent of us indulge in word play during sex.

When it comes to getting frisky between the sheets, do you spice up the action by letting some naughty words slip out? If not, you may want to join the legions of Americans who are using dirty talk to mix things up in the bedroom.

In Praise of Talking Dirty

In Praise of Talking Dirty

Some people are turned on by lewd talk. Others are shocked. One thing's sure: it's transgressive.

We recently heard from an unhappy purchaser of my partner Sheri Winston's award-winning book, who complained that it contained "crude language ... words I would never use out loud let alone during intimate moments with my loved one. Both my partner and I were appalled by the language [Sheri] feels should be normalized by having everyone say it out loud."

The book: Sexy Slang's Bedroom Challenges.

Learn To Talk Dirty With Sexy Slang's Bedroom Challenges

This fun read is a reminder of how important open communication is in our sex lives.

Is your sex life steamy, or could you stand to turn it up? A lot of couples fall into the latter category. It's easy to get in a rut in the bedroom. If both partners don't communicate what they want, sex loses its luster and can become, well… boring. And no one wants that. Maybe you know your sexy time is in need of a serious pick-me-up, but are feeling a little tentative about opening that "Let's turn up the heat" discussion with your S.O. Well, no more! We've found just what you need to start chatting it up about "glazed donuts" and "money shots." Infuse a healthy dose of fun and games into your love life, all aimed at communication and discovery, with a great read from authors Christi Smith Scofield and Ted Scofield. Sexy Slang's Bedroom Challenges: 69 Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life will help you along, and put the playfulness back into your intimacy.

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Japanese Rain Goggles: A New Sex Act?

"Two and a Half Men" mentions "Japanese Rain Goggles," a sex act unknown to most.

The sitcom Two and a Half Men recently achieved the impossible: it mentioned a sex act that the Internet had never heard of, and if you know the Internet, you'll also know that it's usually the premiere source of obscure sex moves. "Japanese Rain Goggles" had the web in a tizzy last week. So what does it mean?

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A Father Plans For The Sex Talk With His Daughter

I take responsibility for my bilingual daughter's English, even when it comes to the word "vagina."

As an expat Dad, you find yourself repeatedly thrown into parenting situations you didn’t see coming. This is especially true when you live in Sweden and take a lot of paternity leave, because then you are not at work all day; you are home, the main driver of potty training, and talking about vaginas.

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Does Sex Writing Prepare You For The Sex Talk?

The entire blogosphere knows about my sex life. But what will I tell my kids?

Being a sex writer and all, it seems as if I should now feel overprepared for the eventual sex talk with my future children, I'm not. I still wonder: how much do I share, and how much is too much? What if I tell my kids something, and they tell other kids, and I'm then approached by angry parents who feel I'm revealing too much? How do I know if it's too soon to share something with them, or how do I know if I'm waiting too long?

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Baby Bytes: The Birds And The Bees

The sex talk, body image, depression, and other heavy topics.

Here at LoveMom, we bring you the love. Our weekly Baby Bytes bring you everything else. Here are this week's 6 must-click mom links.