How many times have you heard the word "holiday" in the past week? Well, the season's here and both sexes are scrambling to find that perfect item that expresses love without words. Or actions. Ok, they are just gifts, but they sure are sparkly and fun. Here's what our male media friends are wishing for and thinking of buying us this year:

Esquire's saying "recession, shmecession" and offering a guide to what one can buy for a billion dollars. A man's gotta dream, right?

YourTango's own Tomfoolery blogger Thomas Miller made a list of foolproof gifts any guy would … Read More

Some husbands diddle their secretaries at the office. Other husbands diddle... themselves.

Maybe jerking off at home wasn't private enough? On the Details blog, sex writers Em & Lo talked to a husband and wife couple struggling—yes, struggling—with hubby's masturbation. The wife griped:

"Just imagining him there in his office on his own, it seemed like the ultimate act of desperation, something you'd only do if you didn't have a partner."

Except that's perception, not reality! Em & Lo say most guys in a long-term relationship still go at it: "A 1994 study found … Read More

That's weird, we'd think the boy wizard would somehow lose his powers if some nymph tricked him out of his essence. There goes that theory. Daily Mail is reporting (from a Details article) that a Daniel Radcliffe had his V-Card punched on his 16th birthday by a much older woman. Evidently, that is customary in the British Isles (the 16th b-day boffing, not necessarily the older woman) because the age of consent is, you guessed it, 16. Which could explain their appeal to American women given that American dudes drop their cherry more often around … Read More

We all know one.

The friend, cousin, dentist or colleague who -- despite voicing attraction to the opposite sex, owning the world's largest collection of straight porn, being married with kids, what have you -- everyone thinks is gay.

We now know what to call these "don't judge a book by its cover"-types: strays! (Thanks to Buzzfeed for disseminating this term and Detail's Mike Albo for coining it.)

According to Albo, there is some scientific evidence behind our gaydar signaling whether a man complimenting us on our tight vintage T-shirt at a bar means "I wonder how I'd look in … Read More