If you're the type to troll the gym hoping to pick yourself up a nice little He-Man, you may want to know that what you gain in muscle bulges, you may lose in generosity. 

A recent study conducted at Claremont Graduate University in California theorizes that men with the most testosterone are more selfish than those with a doughier physique. Researchers gathered volunteers and lathered half of them with testosterone-laden cream and the other half with a placebo. Testosterone Makes Chicks Think Like Dudes

Then the volunteers got into pairs and played a game where they decide how … Read More

Horror movies may well be the perfect date movies. They're an excellent excuse to sit close together in the dark, plus grabbing his hand during the scary parts is totally acceptable. There are no cheesy rom-com clichés to deal with, and studies have shown that scary situations promote intimacy. Here are our favorite horror movies to watch on a date. Poll: Why Do You Like Date Movies?

The Descent
What happens: A group of women go spelunking and end up navigating far more than stalactites. 
Good for: Feminists who want to be truly terrified. This Love Buzzer screamed out loud … Read More

Everyone—god love ya if you haven't—has a tale of dating gone wrong. Whether it happens on a blind date or three months into a blooming relationship, these disasters usually strike out of the blue and leave you stunned, slack-jawed and, often, downright offended. And that's exactly why they make for such good stories. Hopefully, too, they teach us a thing or two about the pursuit of love. Here's my tale.

I had known Billy* for five years through mutual friends, and at some point we started hanging out independently. I was still sailing on the friend boat when Billy indicated … Read More

First dates are a lot like job interviews. You can't score the soul mate or the paycheck without that first meet-and-greet. While some glide through this necessary evil with straight-A finesse, others bumble along a path of C-worthy mediocrity producing mixed results. Enter our first-date study guide for men. Whether or not you and that hot thing across from you will one day get married and pop out children, we can't say, but you can't go wrong following the four tactics below.

1. "I love that (insert clothing piece, hair style, tattoo, eye makeup)." When you first see us, compliment us. … Read More

Somehow dating—especially in the early parts of courtship—got all tangled up in endless rounds of booze, wine buzzes ripe with oversharing and nasty hangovers. While there's a time and place for all things debauche, nothing clouds a "should I see this person again?" judgement more than a splitting headache, cotton mouth and wondering how you got home. Dating Dealbreakers: Top 5 Reasons Guys Dump You

So for those of you looking to date like a sober person (or just look like one!) here are a few non-alcoholic dating ideas that would make your mother proud. Read More

For a lot of people, exercise and dating don't really go well together. Working out is something you do at the gym, either by yourself or in a room full of sweaty classmates. Going on a date, on the other hand, usually involves sitting, eating, watching movies—and maybe a long walk on the beach if you're lucky.

OK, so maybe you're too old for mini golf and batting cages, but there are other ways to enjoy quality time with your sweetie while still being active. (And if you ask me, the batting cages are still a blast too.) Here's our guide … Read More

Choose the one that's right for you with Dr. Diana Kirschner's help. In love with more than one person? Dr. Kirschner recommends the dating three people at once.

Give advice or read what others had to say here: Is it possible to be in love with two?

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Featuring Love and Dating Expert Dr. Diana Kirschner http://www.lovein90days.com

 
When dating online, you have the opportunity to meet more people than you normally would.  It is a numbers game and you must assume that who ever you are meeting is also encountering multiple possibilities. Memorize the letters ECEG.  They stand for Easy Come, Easy Go.  Mentally tattoo this all-important acronym on your heart. You will likely never know why you might experience a groove kill, and you must learn to take it in stride.  The best way to do this is to always have potentials in your queue.  The best way to have potentials in your queue is to … Read More

New York Times' recent Modern Love column—"Forget the Men, Pick a Guy"—explores a quandary many of us ladies face in the post-collegiate dating scene.

Do we date Door no. 1, the fun (if not entirely responsible) guy. Or Door no. 2, the settled, respectable (if not a bit boring) man. Dating A Rich Guy: More Important Than You Think

Exciting guy. Dull man. That is the question? Really? Is it that black and white? We don't think so, but writer Catherine Calbert certainly does and tells us within the first sentence which she Read More

For weeks we've had confirmation that Robert Pattinson and Kristen Stewart are a thing. Robert is clearly the more vocal of the two and, thanks to his British upbringing (and except for their bold hookups), appears to be pursuing Kristen in perfect gentlemanly fashion. Celebrity Love - Kristen Stewart: Robert Pattinson Is "My Husband"

The fashion in which one presents him- or herself in a romantic situation is clearly important to both Rob and Kristen—read that last line like this: they like to shop. Paparazzi caught them out this week … Read More