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The Depth of a Man

The Depth of a Man

Carista Luminare on the depths, challenges, and glories of a committed relationship.

The Depth of a Man I was greeted this morning by a love note from my beloved.  He had written an essay about love, and read it to me. Of his love for me, he said, “It is deep and profound, like the ocean." I felt undulating waves of affection rise up through me as I heard his words. I embraced his tenderness, his love, and the depth and glory of him.  Every woman wants to be loved this way!

Do You Stick To Your Relationship Dealbreakers?
What characteristics are important to you in a life partner?

Do You Stick To Your Relationship Dealbreakers?

Know your deal breakers and learn how to follow through with them.

You may think you know your drop-dead dealbreakers — until you fall in love. Then you find yourself settling for someone who simply isn't the best match for you. It's not just you — people do it all the time. Wonder why? YourTango Expert Julie Orlov has the answers (and the solutions).

Romantic Getaways: Cheap, Fun Trips For Two
Where's your go-to romantic getaway?

Romantic Getaways: Cheap, Fun Trips For Two

Rediscover romance with these inexpensive vacations for couples.

Need a getaway with your partner? From New Hampshire to New Mexico, these inexpensive destinations are romantic and stress-free.

fighting couple
Do you have different opinions on how to handle vacations and holidays?

How To Stop Arguing Over Vacation Plans

YourTango Expert Tina Tessina advises how to resolve your family fights over the holidays.

Do you fight a lot as a couple when it comes to making decisions about holidays and family events? Do you worry that those differences are irreconcilable. If so, help is on the way.

How To Use The Law Of Attraction To Find Your Soulmate
Love yourself and others will be attracted to you!

How To Use The Law Of Attraction To Find Your Soulmate

Follow the law of attraction and find the love of your life!

The law of attraction is the belief that "like attracts like" and that by focusing on positive thoughts, we can bring about positive results. Understanding this simple rule will transform your love life and empower you to attract a lifelong partner.

Happy  Anniversary Viagra.  But You Still Can't Fix Everything!

Happy Anniversary Viagra. But You Still Can't Fix Everything!

Will this magic blue pill help your sex life? A Boston sex therapist muses about whether it might.

by Aline P. Zoldbrod Ph.D.   (EXPERT)   March 2013 is the fifteeth anniversary of Viagra becoming available  (on the 27th of March, to be exact).  In a lot of ways, Viagra’s invention merits a celebration. Erectile dysfunction is  quite common--more common as men age,  but  not rare in younger men.  Men with  E.D. are miserable. If they are married, they are insecure and defensive, avoid sex, get depressed; sometimes their feelings come out as anger toward their partner.

How To Please Your Man - In Bed and In Life!

How To Please Your Man - In Bed and In Life!

5 ways to make sure your man is satisfied - in and out of bed!

Most women want to know how to please their men - in and out of bed. But guys aren't always so verbal about what they need. Try these five strategies to please your man, sexually and otherwise. Once you get the ball rolling and start figuring out the keys on how to please your man, you'll start noticing he becomes more generous as a lover, and your relationship will become much more pleasurable as a whole.  Please Your Man Tip #1: Initiate, But Read His Cues

fighting couple
Are you settling in your relationship?

The Biggest Mistake Couples Make In Relationships

YourTango Expert Bruce Derman has the answer!

Is your relationship on the rocks? Are you wondering what mistake you're making and how to avoid repeating it in the future? If so, help is on the way.

Couples Going Green Together

Couples Going Green Together

Learn how going green can improve your relationship!

My husband Mike and I are on the same page when it comes to the green, natural, organic, sustainable movement — whatever you want to call it. Going green together can be a really fun project that strengthens your relationship, a lot like any other project you take on with a partner.

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There's no place like home.

Love Lessons From 'Oz The Great & Powerful'

Plus: how "the wizard" will ruin your relationship.

I recently went to see the new Disney movie "Oz the Great and Powerful." You see, as a psychologist and author of the book Follow the Yellow Brick Road: How to Change for the Better When Life Gives You Its Worst, I took a special interest in this film. In my book, I devote an entire chapter to the concept of the wizard, and it is through this lens that I warn my clients to watch out; the wizard will wreck your relationship.

worried sexy blonde woman
Are you guilty of making these mistakes?

Top 5 Mistakes Women Make In Bed

Do you make these classic, bedroom errors?

My article Top 5 Mistakes Men Make in Bed received a lot of attention. Most of the comments (or complaints) came from men. Some men found the article helpful, others reacted defensively and some men were simply hostile and rude. But the most common comment came in the form of "What about the women?"