Is it selfish to want to rid yourself of the guilt, or is it right to come clean?
Is it selfish to confess an affair to your wife or husband? If it makes you feel better but makes them feel worse, is that OK? And, how are they ever going to trust you again once your infidelity sees the light of day? 5 Ways To Move Beyond An Affair
In this video, Relationship and YourTango Expert Janie Lacy offers her advice to a reader who has cheated on his wife and is debating whether or not to come clean.
A lifelong boob man comes clean about his breast addiction.
Every time I step outside my front door, I'm subconsciously indexing all the important things I need to be aware of. Cars, buses, cabs, anything that moves and could break my spine? Check. Where I'm going, how to get there, and what time it is? Check. Is that dog poop on the sidewalk? Yes. But the remaining percentage of my brain? It's focusing on breasts. If it's between catching a train and taking an extra 10 seconds to stare at the top half of some woman digging in her purse for her cell phone, I'm missing the train.
It has to end. I must become Spartacus to Breasts' Rome. Here is my plan.
Can a well-picked song at a karaoke bar take your relationship to the next level?
"Save the Best for Last" by Vanessa Williams
7%
"Something to Talk About" by Bonnie Raitt
10%
"You're the One That I Want" by John Travolta and Olivia Newton John from Grease
11%
"I Want You to Want Me" by Cheap Trick
25%
"U Got It Bad" by Usher
22%
"Can't Fight This Feeling" by REO Speedwagon
15%
"My Best Friend's Hot" by The Dolly Rots
2%
"Be My Lover" by LaBouche
8%
Kyra Sedwick masterfully closes cases while teaching us a little about love.
While The Closer might be a police procedural at its core, it doesn't mean the show doesn't have a lot of heart. Much of that can be attributed to its leading lady, Kyra Sedgwick, who dons a somewhat irritating yet cute Georgia accent to play Deputy Police Chief Brenda Johnson. The Closer is airing its fifth season this summer, and Johnson, an expert at drawing confessions out of killers, is married for the first time. Her husband on the show is FBI Special Agent Fritz Howard (played by Jon Tenney) whom she has been dating since the show's first season. Despite only minutes of each episode devoted to her personal life, we have been able to learn much about love from the stubborn Chief Johnson.
Learn the clues and avoid finding out the hard way.
As his hands were wrapped around my wrists, John looked me in the eyes and said “if you keep being a real cool girl, maybe something special could happen between us.” Those words will forever be burned in my brain. They were so cringe-worthy and so embarrassing, that I probably would have laughed had I not been worried about being date raped.
Hiding credit card bills? Paying in cash and throwing out the receipts? You may be cheating without even knowing it. The LoveFeed discusses financial infidelity and how to come clean about your spending habits with your partner.
How soon do you tell someone that you're in an open relationship?
When do you tell your date that you're in an open relationship? Before you start dating? Then you might scare people away. But if you tell them afterwards they may feel that you've mislead them. This week's New York Times Modern Love essayist wasn't too pleased when, before her second date with a man she calls The Engineer, her new date told her that he had another girlfriend.
