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The history of Valentine's Day, in a nutshell.

Why Chocolate? And Other Valentine's Day Questions

Chocolate, flowers, and cards: Oh my! Why we give these gifts on Valentine's Day.

Ever since we were in pre-kindergarten, Valentine's Day has been marked by cards, flowers, chocolate, and—depending on your luck—that One Special Person. But do you know why Valentine's Day is the way it is? Like 'em or loathe 'em, here we explain the holiday's most popular traditions.

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Is your love a one-way street?

6 Signs Your Love Is Not Mutual

Surefire ways to tell that you may be forcing a relationship.

Sometimes it can be quite difficult to not force something when we want it badly; but forcing someone to be in a relationship or love you is a recipe for total disaster.

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5 Signs You're Playing Too Hard To Get

Why acting coy could end your relationship for good.

Ah, matters of the heart. Just when we think things are going to get easier, some complications come about and we're back to square one, trying to figure out where we went wrong.

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Sound Off: A Friends With Benefits Relationship Is...

Are you in a complicated relationship right now or have you been? Tell us what it's like.

Justin and Mila will knock uglies in 'Friends With Benefits' next week. Are you in a complicated relationship right now or have you been? Tell us what it's like.

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Why Women Fall Out Of Love

Eight reasons women lose interest in a relationship.

Constant Criticism: It creeps into a relationship, eventually killing any warm and loving feelings a woman might have for her guy. The constant need to nit-pick and criticize every little thing she is doing "wrong" will usually a.) knock the wind out of her sails until she feels depleted and then b.), she is going to start caring less about putting any effort into the relationship until c.) she realizes she must protect herself and self esteem, and heads for the door. There really is something to be said for, "If you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything."

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It's time to start weeding out the boys who aren't ready to grow up.

8 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Still A Boy

You know your man isn't ready to grow up if he follows Lil' Wayne on Twitter.

Every relationship comes to a crossroads when both people have to decide what type of commitment they want, if at all. Some of us have clear rules and don't waste time playing around any longer than three months; while, others hang on for years. But, there is no need to squander precious time with someone who isn't ready to step up.

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Hey Facebook: I'm Married AND It's Complicated

Does a Married relationship status give the entire picture?

Next month, I will be married for 23 years and, Facebook, I've got news: as far as status goes, Married and It's Complicated are not two separate categories. Women who have been married for more than a few years, and especially those with children, know this fundamental truth.

Traffic School Helped My Marriage

Traffic School Helped My Marriage

Why "Inattention Blindness" can hurt your marriage.

Saturday was my day to go to traffic school. I had to report there before November so my ticket for driving 50 in a 30 doesn't go on my record. When I reported to the class at 8:30 that morning, I never thought I would leave with information to help my marriage. Here is some of what I learned.

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We Celebrate Halloween As A Family

The family that dresses up for Halloween together, stays together.

What happens when two grown adults who like to dress up on Halloween have a child? Well, he gets to be part of the madness, until he wants to begin deciding for himself what he wants to be for Halloween. What are his parents to do? Especially since he keeps changing his mind?

Men: 5 Phrases We Just Don't Want To Hear Anymore

Men: 5 Phrases We Just Don't Want To Hear Anymore

The time has come to retire these lame and predictable excuses.

We are gathered here today to lay to rest some of the hardest-working, most tired "boy moves" that men have pulled in the history of dating. These lame and predictable maneuvers have been driving women insane for centuries, and after all this time, we women have decided to tell you a little something: We're on to you. We know these moves, we know what they mean (and what they actually mean), and we know that they're specially designed to make us feel crazy. We're done with them. Let us bow our heads for these top five most obnoxious boy moves, which I am hereby proclaiming to be dead on the battlefi

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What Am I Going To Tell My Son About S-E-X?

We all have to have "THE TALK" sometime, what are you going to say?

Our son just turned five, and it won’t be too long until he will be getting notes from little girls (or sending them himself) with “Do you like me? Check Yes, No, or Maybe (that middle box)” scrawled across the page. How are we supposed to guide him on this journey of love, sex and marriage? We have figured out a few things we think he should know for his journey.