Men cannot tolerate women who nag! If you want your man to communicate more, than stop the nagging.
When problems arise, challenges become harder, or even our monthly visitor sets off an array of emotional unbalance, we as woman are all guilty of complaining. We were always taught that communication is key and that honesty was the best policy. For the most part that is correct but when it comes to relationships with men, they want to hear us, but they honestly do not want to hear us complain.
Do you focus on the negative qualities in your mate? If so, stop now...before it is too late.
Do you focus more on the negative than the positive?
Can you find a million things to complain about but only a few things to praise?
Do you find yourself constantly complaining and it annoys even you?
If so, don't beat yourself up about it. It is, after all, a perfectly normal human tendency. If you're walking through the woods and you step on a wildflower, no big deal. If, however, you step on a rattlesnake, BIG deal. So, in effect, we are wired to pay more attention to the negative.
Why is it you always seem to want what you can’t have? Why do you try to come between your lover and his work when you know you can't win?
I'm out walking my dog. He’s doing his sniffing thing, which seems much more important to him than the peeing thing – and there’s a couple arguing.
The guy is trying to get into his car. He’s telling the woman he has to go, he has an appointment, and she’s frustrated. She's saying "You always have an appointment," and he’s saying “Look I can’t run a business and hold your hand at the same time.” She retorts with: “You never have time for me, you’re always working.” He’s trying to make nice with her, saying “We’ll take a vacation when I close this deal” and you know that's never gonna happen.
This man is DAMAGED from his Traumatized relationship with my former best friend. When he and I met before their marriage we vowed to be friends forever! Ever since they broke up, after her drug abuse caused them to lose their business, vehicles, she attempted suicide, then once allowed home she had him put out on a lie. I spoke with DHR and told them all the manipulative thins she had done and that kids were in danger. They went to the home removed the kids and 8 hours later she burned down the house "accidentally". He and I have grown closer and joked about marrying one another, and admitted that our feelings ran deeper than friendship. I know he is damaged and he has alot to deal with considering he got custody of all 4 kids. This man has withstood more than I can write. I LOVE him with an unconditional LOVE. A LOVE that is willing to not push and to WAIT until he is healed. If when he is healed he chooses another I will support him and not allow his choice to affect our friendship! My Mama say;s he is worth the wait, Some friends say I am a fool.. I don't care,I just LOVE him!
There are a few unconventional signs that he's a keeper.
Everyone knows that there are a few signs that he's a keeper. Usually these good signs include thoughtfulness and various degrees of compatibility. But what about complaining and arguing? Here are a few unconventional omens that should get you baking that engagement chicken.
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