The other week, we introduced you to our founder and CEO, Andrea Miller. She makes the rest of us—despite our tendencies to work in the off-hours, neglect loved ones and forget meals—look like lazy bums. This week, we'd like to move along the masthead and spotlight our perpetually-cheery Community Director, Lyz Lenz. Unfortunately for us, she works remotely, in the far, far land that is Iowa. So we can't go to lunch together or swap friendship bracelets. Fortunately, she rocks the whole community thing, and is regularly in contact with you, dear readers, and quick to report back … Read More

Every day, brave people like you are asking tough questions in the Ask YourTango forum. Because you bared your souls with complete openness and honesty, you've helped us all make our own relationships a little better. Here are our top 10 favorite questions of 2009:
1. Is Online Dating Cheating?
i have been with a man for a year been living together for six months he gets e mail from on line dating sites girls "offering" their all...he say he has been on those sites for a long time i think he should cancel and bow out of those "match maker … Read More

For the past year, the YourTango Community Blogs have been a place for you to talk back, give us your best love advice, and share your stories. From abusive relationships to Internet porn, you wrote about what was on your mind, and the community listened and responded. Here are the top ten community blogs that got you talking:

1. 6 Common Myths About Women
Whether you love it or hate it, techbarbie's post certainly got you talking about stereotypes, relationships and what men and women need to understand about each other.

2. I Wish He Would Hit Me
From Chris Brown and Rihanna to … Read More

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"What do men like about oral sex? I'm willing to put in the work when it comes to giving a blow job but it would be so helpful if someone could tell me what exactly men like." -Kataroo

We know men love sex, and especially oral sex. But what's so great about third base? Men and women from the YourTango community weigh in with advice, tips and insights.

To read what others had to say or to give your own advice, go here: What Do Men Like About Oral Sex?

If you're like us, being a few double-clicks away from all our cyberfriends is called "being awake." (Battery power withstanding) Facebook Decides To Control Your Love Life

Sure, we remember when AOL was just gaining momentum and we proudly flaunted our newly minted e-mail addresses. We remember rushing home to check the answering machine to see if our crush called and eagerly awaiting this newfangled thing called Instant Messaging. All to the serenading sound of dial-up, of course.

But now we don't even need to go out of our way to find out what our crush du … Read More

Every morning I make some coffee, put on pants (Okay, sometimes I put on pants) and turn on my computer. When I sit down to answer messages and emails from the YourTango community, it feels like I'm getting paid to chat with friends. Friends who I've never met and have names like Qverb, Watersisland, LAWestphal, BookMama, lwarrell, Rocketman, onewriter, nubiancoco, cal, jss, dynamike, MoniaFreedman (okay, her username sounds normal)…but friends nonetheless. … Read More

With many of our favorite TV shows wrapping up for the season, we're stocking up on DVDs of new series to sate us until our beloveds return in the fall. McLeod's Daughters was a hit series in Australia for eight seasons running. One lucky YourTango user has already won a set of the show's season-eight DVDs. We have four sets left to give away and four different ways to win them.

Please contribute your comments, advice or community blog posts by midnight EST on Tuesday, May 26 for your chance to win the final season of this women-ruling-the-ranch series. The best … Read More

"Do Single People Work More?" User daenerra thinks that's probably true. Additionally, she thinks that special concessions should not be made for parents.Whether or not you are a parent has no bearing on what kind of work you
produce. Single people bring just as much to the table as parents.
Maybe it's the field I work in. I'm an engineer. All that talk about
"different perspectives" really don't matter in my world. It's all in
the numbers, you're either right or you're wrong. You can't have a
different "perspective" on physics.It's a pretty interesting conversation happening over there. Care to weigh in?

Hey YourTango friends! Today we launched a new blog feature! I hope you have tons of fun with it. Ask your questions and meet new friends and let me know if you have any problems. You can message me here or email me at lyz (at) tangomag (dot) com.

We like to flatter ourselves as being more worldly than the average bear, which is why it bruised our egos a bit when we saw the words "womyn's land" and drew a blank.

What's a "womyn's land?" We didn't even know such a spelling of "woman" existed. Color us square!

According to the

New York Times article

"My Sister's Keeper" a "womyn's land" is a lesbian-only commune. These clusters are notoriously small (sometimes with only 2 members), and have sprouted up all over rural parts of America since the 1970s. In some communes men aren't allowed on the premises at all, but … Read More