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"What do men like about oral sex? I'm willing to put in the work when it comes to giving a blow job but it would be so helpful if someone could tell me what exactly men like." -Kataroo

We know men love sex, and especially oral sex. But what's so great about third base? Men and women from the YourTango community weigh in with advice, tips and insights.

To read what others had to say or to give your own advice, go here: What Do Men Like About Oral Sex?

If you're like us, being a few double-clicks away from all our cyberfriends is called "being awake." (Battery power withstanding) Facebook Decides To Control Your Love Life

Sure, we remember when AOL was just gaining momentum and we proudly flaunted our newly minted e-mail addresses. We remember rushing home to check the answering machine to see if our crush called and eagerly awaiting this newfangled thing called Instant Messaging. All to the serenading sound of dial-up, of course.

But now we don't even need to go out of our way to find out what our crush du … Read More

Every morning I make some coffee, put on pants (Okay, sometimes I put on pants) and turn on my computer. When I sit down to answer messages and emails from the YourTango community, it feels like I'm getting paid to chat with friends. Friends who I've never met and have names like Qverb, Watersisland, LAWestphal, BookMama, lwarrell, Rocketman, onewriter, nubiancoco, cal, jss, dynamike, MoniaFreedman (okay, her username sounds normal)…but friends nonetheless. … Read More

With many of our favorite TV shows wrapping up for the season, we're stocking up on DVDs of new series to sate us until our beloveds return in the fall. McLeod's Daughters was a hit series in Australia for eight seasons running. One lucky YourTango user has already won a set of the show's season-eight DVDs. We have four sets left to give away and four different ways to win them.

Please contribute your comments, advice or community blog posts by midnight EST on Tuesday, May 26 for your chance to win the final season of this women-ruling-the-ranch series. The best … Read More

"Do Single People Work More?" User daenerra thinks that's probably true. Additionally, she thinks that special concessions should not be made for parents.Whether or not you are a parent has no bearing on what kind of work you
produce. Single people bring just as much to the table as parents.
Maybe it's the field I work in. I'm an engineer. All that talk about
"different perspectives" really don't matter in my world. It's all in
the numbers, you're either right or you're wrong. You can't have a
different "perspective" on physics.It's a pretty interesting conversation happening over there. Care to weigh in?

Hey YourTango friends! Today we launched a new blog feature! I hope you have tons of fun with it. Ask your questions and meet new friends and let me know if you have any problems. You can message me here or email me at lyz (at) tangomag (dot) com.

We like to flatter ourselves as being more worldly than the average bear, which is why it bruised our egos a bit when we saw the words "womyn's land" and drew a blank.

What's a "womyn's land?" We didn't even know such a spelling of "woman" existed. Color us square!

According to the

New York Times article

"My Sister's Keeper" a "womyn's land" is a lesbian-only commune. These clusters are notoriously small (sometimes with only 2 members), and have sprouted up all over rural parts of America since the 1970s. In some communes men aren't allowed on the premises at all, but … Read More

Qualified therapists can tell you what science and history have to say about various relationship issues.  But who knows more than someone who has been through the same exact issue as you?  I am, by no means, discouraging therapy as it’s an incredibly valuable tool for a healthy life.  However, there is tremendous value in a personal understanding of raw human behavior as it relates to a specific situation.  And by that I mean...it can be extremely helpful to talk to someone who has "been there".  We know that relationships can be very complicated and situations can get very specific.  … Read More

Calling all Harley girls: If you fantasize about riding off into the sunset on the back of a bicycle made for two, Bikerkiss.com, a niche online dating community for motorcycle enthusiasts, may help you make your dreams come true.

Bikerkiss members need not own a motorcycle to join this community which spans the states, UK, Canada, Australia and Europe. Whether you're looking for a ride or someone to ride with, you can search for matches based on the brand of bike they own. (There are also conventional search fields such as location, age, and so forth.)

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Would you date someone with an STD? Would you want them to be honest about it? Honesty is understood at PositiveSingles.com, an online dating community for those who reject a life of seclusion as part of their STD-prognosis. Whether they have HPV or HIV, members can use Positive Singles to find romance, friendship, or simply support. Each member's specific STD is cited on their profile alongside otherwise-standard information, and users can sift through profiles by searching for specific STDs or any other information. Genital herpes and HPV seem to be most prevalent on the site, according to a Love Buzz … Read More