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COMMUNICATION STYLE

Which Type of Communicator are You?

Which Type of Communicator are You?

There are four ways we communicate with other people. Only one is healthy. Which one are you?

The basic types of communication are: (1) Assertive (2) Passive (3) Aggressive (4) Passive-Aggressive Did you know we communicate both verbally and nonverbally? Nonverbals include body language, eye contact, presentation (clothing, cleanliness, etc.). Which type of communicator are you? If you're assertive, then you are tactful when getting your point across, you stay true to yourself, and everyone views the situation as win-win.

texting annoyed girl

Why Does He Only Text, Not Call Me?

Why won't he just pick up the phone? Deciphering men's communication habits.

Where have all the gentlemen gone? In this video from Fox News iMag, resident "bartender" Tobi Dragotta explores the oft-vexing question of why some men prefer to communicate via short, impersonal bits of text rather than hear someone's voice. How do you get a man to put in some effort and call you?

Couple in a field wearing boxing gloves

Can A 'Fighting Formula' Improve Your Relationship?

Is there a right and wrong way to handling conflict in your relationship?

If you're in a relationship, you've most likely had a spat or two. And according to recent research, arguments about small, nagging things may happen as often as 312 times per year. Some research even shows that how you handle conflict in your romantic life may have less to do with your relationship and more to do with how you were raised. But regardless of all the small arguments, or how your mother messed you up, enduring screaming matches multiple times a day with your spouse, or stonewalling your boyfriend post-argument may mean that your disagreements have gotten the better of your romance. It's helpful to know the hot button issues in relationships, and the red flags indicating that it's gone from lovey-dovey to knock-down, drag out.

Three minutes to save your relationship

Three minutes to save your relationship

If you knew that 3 minutes would change your life as well as your relationships would you change?

I’m sure you have seen it before. You and your partner go out for a nice dinner and get seated next to another couple. They begin bickering, and before long you are sorry you are sitting next to them. Their talk is unkind to one another, and you can only wonder why they are hashing their problems out over dinner.  

couple fighting

What Confuses Us About How Men Fight

We just don't get the way men argue.

Men. Who can understand them? Not me. The thing about men I understand the least is how they fight. I literally feel like I'm speaking another language when I'm arguing with my dude. Are we talking about the same thing? Did we have the same conversation? Wait, are we even on the same planet? That's when I feel like that men are from Mars, women are from Venus BS might have some truth to it.

Communication Breakdown Part  4

Communication Breakdown Part 4

What's on your mind? Fourth in a series of five articles on ways that men and women communicate differently. In this article, we'll explore how men's and women's brains work differently, and how that impacts communication.

Communication Breakdown Part 2

Communication Breakdown Part 2

The second (of five) major difference in communication styles between men and women is the distinction between direct and indirect communication, specifically when it comes to making and agreeing to a request. This post outlines these differences and offers advice to both men and women for bridging the communication gap.

Communication Breakdown

Communication Breakdown

Translate what he's really saying. He said, she said. Why is it so difficult for men and women to communicate effectively? Learn about the five major style differences in communication between men and women.