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Comment of the Day 08/03/09

Comment of the Day 08/03/09

The great hair debate! It's on. I met my DH when I had super short hair. I grew it long for him (yeah, yeah, I know, but I was only 20 at the time). Now it's long and I love it. But I mostly love it because I grew up being told that I could only have short hair because I looked "terrible" with long hair.  From being on both sides of the fence I can see how the seemingly superficial issue might ignite some discussion. I love what LateBloomer had to say on the topic so much that she is the commenter of the day! Thanks, lady! I have a new litmus test for men now... if he is not attracted to me because my hair is short and he can't see beyond it to my heart and soul and mind............ buh bye. Read more of her comment here.

Comment of the Day 07/31

Comment of the Day 07/31

Today's comment of the day, again, comes from the Ask YourTango Forums where users are dishing out great advice and asking heartfelt questions. Recently, Larissa told us about a boy who wants to have sex with her but doesn't seem to want the relationship. He keeps pushing her, but Larissa is holding off. What Q has to say in response, we think is a lesson for women everywhere: Here is the clear cut rule on this, and it doesn't matter if he is after you for sex or something else. You have a boundary that you set up, a line that you don't want to cross with him yet. If he is not going to respect your boundaries then he does not deserve to be with you...period. If you aren't ready to sleep with him then don't.