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5 Easy Steps to Self-Discovery

5 Easy Steps to Self-Discovery

Has your comfort zone become your prison? Imagine setting yourself free.

Has your comfort zone become your prison? Taking time to reflect on your life right now can give you the answer. Knowing yourself is the first step in bursting out of your prison. I know there are many schools of thought on this. One is to take baby steps, just put your toe over the zone and see how it feels. If it doesn't feel good then go back to yourself imposed prison!

Couple Sharing Dinner

Does Being In Love Make You Fat?

Studies find women likely to gain weight upon entering the comfort zone of marriage and couplehood.

New research shows that within a few years of getting married, individuals are twice as likely to become obese than their unmarried counterparts. The study was published in the July issue of Obesity, where the authors tried to determine how romantic relationships affected weight gain. They studied 6,949 people for several years and found that married people are more likely to become obese than those who are just dating, and that young people who cohabitate with their partners also tend to gain weight.

i love you

I'm Always The First To Say "I Love You"

Guys, it appears, tend to say "I love you" first.

According to a recent study, it takes the average guy seven months to say the three magic words ("I love you") and the average female takes eight months to say the same thing. While you could both say it at the same time, in real life someone has to take off his/her clothes first…and that person is almost always me.

Making the Cut

Making the Cut

Rajul discusses her deal breakers, including shortness and bisexuality.

I've been talking about venturing out of comfort zones, lately. It seems like the lines of my own zone, which used to be as thick as La Winehouse's eyeliner, are stretching into skimpy dotted lines now. Is it maturity, or am I just finally realizing that a good man can come in any color, shape, size or background? It seems as if the "try something new" bug has bitten everyone lately. Angie, who is usually all about tall, dark and debonair, is dating this new guy that looks like he’s in a boy band. "I usually hate light eyes," she said, "but for some reason, they look really good on him." Maybe it's not the light eyes but the fact that he's adorable, smart and bat-shit crazy about her. Go figure.