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Over at Ask YourTango—where users give and receive relationship advice— a woman asks for help with a partner who is struggling with post-deployment sexual problems. Dr. John Gray, author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, tackles the issue, suggesting new and nonthreatening ways to reawaken his libido. Why You Don't Have To Fear The Libido Dip
For more on Dr. John Gray and his book Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, visit Read More
Hooking up isn't always as glamorous as they make it seem in the movies.
Sometimes sex feel like it does in the movies: hot, coordinated and culminating in simultaneous, mind-blowing orgasms. Other times, it's not quite so pretty. The up-against-the-wall sex scene between Kelly Preston and Tom Cruise's characters in Jerry Maguire comes to mind. In real life, his arm muscles might get tired from holding her up, or she might not be able to climax with her legs wrapped around him so tightly, right?
OK, maybe you disagree. In which case, congrats on having a red-hot Hollywood sex life (liar), one any without awkward positions, dry patches or underwhelming performances! For the … Read More
Rabbi Shmuley Boteach mixes Kaballah and Tantra to help couples restore desire to their sex lives.
Rabbi Shmuley Boteach's spiritual approach to fixing relationships—specifically those where passion has waned—doesn't only ring true with devoted followers. His first spiritual sex book, Kosher Sex, became an international bestseller and helped secure his place as a national media darling. This year, Boteach released The Kosher Sutra: 8 Sacred Secrets for Reigniting Desire and Restoring Passion for Life, which prescribes Kabbalistc and Tantric principles for couples struggling in sexually or emotionally mediocre marriages.
In this excerpt, Boteach tells one couple how using Tantra can help them live in a heightened state. By focusing on the moment without expectation … Read More
Men fake orgasms, too. How to tell if his O is for real.
In our piece, The Myth Of The Male Orgasm, we wrote about men who have trouble coming—it's not as uncommon as you think. In fact, an AskMen survey found that 23% of guys have faked it at some point.
Women impersonate the O for various reasons; a common excuse is not wanting to hurt his feelings. AskMen says that guys do it for the same reason. "The prevailing opinion is that men should be able to climax whenever, wherever and under any circumstance," which simply isn't true. Your dude might have trouble peaking if he's tired, stressed or drunk, or … Read More
