chivalry
Plus the birth order-romance link, suicide and marriage, and praise for missionary.
It's Friday and it's time for links. So you don't have to surf the internet yourself, here are the best the web has to offer in terms of love and relationships. I'm not a hero, I do this for love.
The gals at The Frisky have a great list of dos and, more importantly, don'ts about trying to get back with an ex. My plan is: be awesome, apologize profusely (regardless of whether you mean it) and make promises that you could never possibly keep.
With exes on the brain, Em & Lo (EmAndLo.com) field a question from a … Read More
No matter what a men's website tells you, there will be no sex after an insult.
We're going to meet askmen.com halfway and applaud them for trying to help men understand women. But we're going to dock them all the points they earned for advising men to treat women like garbage. In Relationships, Are You A Thinker Or A Feeler?
We'll explain.
It all begins with an e-mail from an earnest recently divorced guy who says he's having a hard time dating because he's "too nice."
"I have always been the nice guy," he says. "Ready with an honest compliment and holding the door, etc. It’s not an act—it's just … Read More
How one woman ended up paying for everything when dating during the recession.
"Let's stop and get bagels," he said.
I ordered a sesame bagel toasted with cream cheese; he ordered a plain bagel, plain cream cheese. The total was $6. I paid.
He hadn't even made a move for his wallet. And it wasn't the first time.
Six months ago, I was laid off from a job I loved and a salary I really loved. I left with a nice little pile of severance and had accumulated a substantial 401K. But I was single. It makes a difference, it turns out.
Dating, for a period post-layoff, was about free entertainment.Read: Cheap Dates … Read More
Also "wife camp," the "adorkable" Michael Cera and Chinese sex changes.
Hello loyal readers, once-in-a-while skimmers and accidental glancers. Now is the late spring of our laziness. Rather than ask you to look for yourself, I've cruised the interwebs for the best love and relationships content of the past few weeks. Just so we're on the same page, some of this ish is bananas. With further a-don't, the links:
Em & Lo are concerned about the state of male-courteousness. So, they've asked their very own man panel what's up with chivalry. These dudes are totally down with it, it's the rest of the jags out there screwing things up... … Read More
Is chivalry dead? Or has it just changed shape? One man weights in.
When I'm feeling jaded I can't help but agree with Dave Chappelle's assessment that chivalry is dead—and women killed it. Don't get me wrong, I honestly enjoy opening the door, picking up the check and planning dates (OK, planning dates can get a little old). But what really makes me nervous are all of the obscure rules, most of which seem a little antiquated to me. Por ejemplo:
- Standing up when you leave the table. This just increases the odds that I'll bump into something and spill your drink. Do you want that?
- Pulling out your chair. Maybe in … Read More
The best on screen orgasms, poetry that heals and why chivalry works.
Love Bytes: three must click sex, dating and relationship links.
These 7 Hollywood sex scenes win for Best Leading Lady. [Lemondrop]
The answer to love's biggest questions are already written down. [First Wives World]
All it takes is a little chivalry to get the girl. [The Frisky]
The occasional bit of lateness I can excuse and I'm always happy to hear an explanation, but reoccurring lateness is a sign that your kindness is being taken advantage of, that he is being lazy in the courtesy department, and is counting on your inclination to forgive and his charm to … Read More
Men give tips on holiday parties, haircuts, kissing and how to chill out.
The content in this week's "What On His Mind" isn't all that different from what on our own minds this week. They're rating sexy bloggers, we're rating 10 men hotter than Hugh Jackman. They've got tips on how to kiss, and so do we! Hmm, maybe gender differences are a myth, after all...
Tomfoolery tells us ladies to tread carefully when telling a guy what to do with his hair: "No one likes it when you assume you know what's best for them. And let's not pretend that personal grooming is something that dudes don’t … Read More