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Want a little Einstein around the house?

15 Tips For Raising Smarter Children

What makes a genius?

Want a little Einstein around the house? The role of genetics in intelligence—i.e., the extent to which our smarts are inherited—has long been an academic war zone. What can raise your child's chances? There's no single best recipe, but studies prove that keeping TV out of the nursery, shelling out for music lessons, breastfeeding, having a big library, and withholding cookies are just a few ways to boost your child's chances of success.

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Marital status and education affect your probability of having a child.

15 Signs You'll Never Have A Baby

Statistics and demographic trends, like education, can predict whether you will ever give birth.

New research shows more women than ever are remaining childless. Anneli Rufus on 15 statistics that could shape whether you will be one of them.

Should You Tell Your Date You Have Kids?

Should You Tell Your Date You Have Kids?

When should you tell your date that you have kids - check out our top tips

Singles Warehouse the US Singles Dating and UK Singles Dating Site asks the question - when should you tell your date that you have kids? When should you tell your date you have kids? In a word yes! If you have kids, then at the very first opportunity you should let your online dating world know, preferably before your first date.

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Your relationships with your parents have a huge impact on your love life.

Did You Know That Divorced Parents Can Ruin Your Love Life?

Unhappy families lead to more unhappy families -- but you can put a stop to it.

When I was a sophomore in college, I started seeing a counselor re: my daddy issues. Up until that first appointment, I had been making it a point to only get involved with guys who made it easy for me to control the situation — so that they wouldn't up and leave me the way my dad left my mom and I when they got divorced. I thought, "If my own father can hurt me, you will, too."

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Little Girls In Lingerie: Business Plan or Child Porn?

A French company is targeting a much, much younger audience with their "loungerie."

Forget about candy-colored bra and panty sets from Target; there's ickier underwear for little girls afoot. It's lingerie, to be exact, although the French line Jours Aprés Lunes calls it "loungerie," because it is for lounging around instead of, uh, looking sexy prior to getting it on. Why, praytell, would girls ages four through 12 want to wear lingerie?

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The Thylane Blondeau Debacle: Can A 10-Year-Old Be Sexy?

One word: NO! Let a child be a child.

The web is ablaze over a French Vogue shoot that made 10-year-old model Thylane Blondeau look like an adult—face painted in thick make-up and feet clad in high heels as she sprawls out on a leopard-spotted couch. Should a child be donning this sexy look?

Secrets on How to Get Your Kids to Do Chores

Secrets on How to Get Your Kids to Do Chores

Tired of nagging & arguing with your child to get their chores done? These expert secrets will help!

Tired of nagging, fighting, and blaming your children to get their chores done? You want to have your children clean their room, help around the house, and pick-up after themselves without fighting. Children need support and reminders, yet you are tired of reminding them and nagging. So what's a parent to do? Create a chore chart!

Help! My Child Is Screaming On The Floor, Now What?

Help! My Child Is Screaming On The Floor, Now What?

Stop tantrums and meltdowns with these 5 creative tips.

Stop tantrums and meltdowns with these 5 creative tips. If you are a parent then you have faced the challenge of helping your child find ways to manage those big feelings that at times seem to over take them. Those feelings of frustration, anger, or sadness that appear to storm out of nowhere and take over your child. Often parents are bewildered by the behaviors attached to these feelings such as tantrums, yelling, crying, refusal, inflexibility, shutting down, or hitting.

Why developing self-esteem in children may be overrated!

Why developing self-esteem in children may be overrated!

Is self-esteem that important?

I came across a NY Times article recently on self-compassion, and how people who are more compassionate with themselves have less depression, anxiety, and tend to be more resilient, optimistic, and happier. So it got me thinking about how we encourage self-esteem in children, yet we don’t spend as much time and energy on cultivating self-compassion. What does it mean to be self-compassionate and how can we teach children how to become more compassionate?

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Poll: What Message Does This Mom Painting Son's Nails Ad Send?

A new J.Crew ad showing a mom painting her son's toenails pink has caused a stir. What do you think?

"Lucky for me, I ended up with a boy whose favorite color is pink. Toenail painting is way more fun in neon." That's the quote, accompanied by a photo of J.Crew's creative director, Jenna Lyons, applying pink polish to 5-year-old son Beckett's toenails, that's caused a firestorm of cultural controversy and had critics crying "transgendered child propaganda." We're pretty sure the minds behind the catalog ad thought the toenail painting was just a cute mother-son activity to highlight on their "Saturday with Jenna" page. Prominent conservatives thought otherwise.