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Will your parents' divorce affect your own happiness in marriage?

Love Bytes: Are You Destined For Marriage Failure?

Plus, how to have a quickie without getting caught!

Everybody manscape now. What was your first time like? What is the first year of marriage "really" like? The importance of sexual chemistry. The truth about being a bridesmaid. How to have a quickie and not get caught. When is chivalry a little too much? The porn industry is mandating condom use. Great, non-hormonal birth control methods. Does your parents' failure at marriage doom you? Never date a guy named "Tom."

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Healthy Bachelorette Party Ideas: Yes, It Can Be Done

Drinking and dancing is so last year. Take your girlfriends hiking or to yoga: They'll love it!

From Shape, here are some phenomenally creative tips for throwing a healthy bachelorette party, including yoga, hiking in the woods and even running a triathlon.

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Best Ideas For Untraditional Bridesmaids Favors

Ditch the pearl earrings and treat your bridesmaids to these creative pre-wedding gifts.

If you're getting married this summer and wondering what to give your bridesmaids, look no further. The Frisky has come up with the distinguishing, creative bride's gift guide, featuring poetry books, silk scarves and unusual chocolate flavors. So be boring no more and make your bridal party the hippest around with these quirky favors.

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The 10 Best Wedding Planning Books And Websites

Looking for wedding ideas? We found the best resources every bride (and groom!) should know about.

Congratulations, you're engaged! If you plan to have a wedding, even a small one, here comes the next part: planning the biggest party of your life. But when do you mail the invitations? How should you style your hair? Do you have to give out favors? There are tons of choices when it comes to weddings and tons of books, blogs and websites to help brides with those choices. But wading through so much information could easily send you into wedding overload, so we did the work for you and selected our 10 favorite resources for all things wedding.

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Outdated Bachelorette And Bridesmaid Traditions

Catching the bouquet, gifting sex toys and other traditions that should go the way of the landline.

The summer wedding season is upon us! That means bachelorette parties, bridal showers and actual weddings to look forward to. But there are some traditions surrounding these lovely festivities that we never seem to question.

Kristen Wiig and Maya Rudolph in Bridesmaids.

'Bridesmaids' & The Secret Women Hate To Admit

Nothing changes a friendship like a wedding. Well, besides infidelity and babies.

If I hear one more person describe Bridesmaids as "the female version of The Hangover," I'm going to Kristen Wiig out. Why do we have to label a movie that's hilarious in its own right as the female version of something else? Well, actually I know why. Because a lot of comedies starring women aren't exactly thought of as "funny." And a lot of wedding-related movies are cheesier than they are clever and witty. Bridesmaids is a long overdue exception. Despite its title and premise, it's not really about a wedding, either. We don't even really meet the groom. The movie is about two best friends growing in different directions. Annie (Kristen Wiig) is stuck in a dead-end job after the bakery she opened—and the boyfriend who helped her run it—both go out of business. Her best friend Lillian (Maya Rudolph) has always been her cheerleader and confidante. But their relationship changes when Lillian gets engaged and asks Annie to be the maid of honor.

I Was In My Ex-Girlfriend's Wedding

I Was In My Ex-Girlfriend's Wedding

The story of not only attending, but being part of an ex's wedding party.

Whether you're a bride, part of the wedding party, or merely a guest who's excited to dress up and get wasted on someone else's tab, the wedding experience is something we're all familiar with. But when I was a bridesmaid in my ex-girlfriend's wedding, I didn't really know what to expect. On a hot summer day, not too long ago, I packed my red chiffon bridesmaid dress and boarded a plane heading north. Landing in Portland, I was greeted by my ex, Anna, the bride, and her nervous-looking, soon-to-be husband, Dean. Dean and I had only met once before when the two of them were on their way to Costa Rica and had a twelve-hour layover in L.A. They crashed at my place, where Dean kept a tight grip around Anna's waist and eyed me suspiciously all night.

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3 Reasons It's Great To Be A Bridesmaid

Being a bride's right-hand woman is great. Here's why.

Being a bridesmaid gets a bad rap, especially because of 27 Dresses. Personally, I find it to be quite an honor (but ask me again in 23 more dresses). Usually when you're a member of the bridal party, you think of the hassle and expense, but I had so much fun that today, I'm going to remind us all why it's good to be a bridesmaid.

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Love Bytes: The Pros Of Being A Bridesmaid

Finding the one, being a bridesmaid and how to make a grand wedding entrance.

Love Bytes: Five must-click sex, love and relationship links. Finding the one, being a bridesmaid, and how to make a grand wedding entrance.

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My Husband Wanted A Big Wedding—So He Planned It

Why one bride said yes to marriage and no to a wedding, until her groom offered to plan it himself.

Last year, when Jay got on one knee in Battery Park in Manhattan and proposed, I accepted and realized I was filled with joy—at the prospect of spending the rest of my life with him—then panic, associated with the idea of becoming a bride. So after saying yes, I said, "Let's elope!" trying to make it sound bright, shiny and enticing. To my frustration, his response was, "No way!" I threw my hands in the air and issued my challenge: "Fine. You're planning this thing."

Choosing Wedding Weather And Other Bridal News

Choosing Wedding Weather And Other Bridal News

Cave weddings nixed in PA, ensuring rain-free days, gown rentals and the zero gravity wedding.

Brides are renting wedding gowns, long-range weather predictions are helping avoid foul weather weddings, people are marrying in outer space, and Pennsylvania is saying no to cave wedding receptions.