Has your marriage gone flat in the sack? Looking for ways to add spice back into your relationship? YourTango Expert and sex coach Dr. Dorree Lynn explains how to "renegotiate" your love life. Maybe a little Thursday night hotel sex? Find out more!
There’s a reason sleep is considered the new sex. I think exhaustion is very real and a big concern for couples. No doubt, there are many times when a couple is too tired to have sex. Generally though, being tired shouldn’t equate to a person’s motivation to have sex.
When I grew up and started getting naked with boys, the principle remained: I liked my sex life plain and neat, simple and missionary. Boyfriends who tried to get me interested in doggy style or 69 came away from the experience sorely disappointed.
I've learned a few things about love in my time here on Earth, and one of them is that relationships built on sex usually don't last. First, no matter how cool she is, no matter how good-looking she is and no matter how much you dig her, there is someone out there who is sick of her. Second, there is a very good chance that when a guy begins drifting away from a lady, he's just sick of boning her.
YourTango user T.L. asked "How do I get my wife to want better sex?" We went to America's love experts, Matt Titus and Tmasen Fadal, for their advice for T.L.'s boring sexual situation.
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Too many couples have mediocre sex; and too few understand why. The first step is defining what bad sex is for you. And it doesn't necessarily have anything to do with orgasms. The next step is figuring out what's making it boring or unfulfilling and communicating that to your partner. But a little communication and sexual exploration can prevent it from being a total dealbreaker.
