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6 Tips on Taking Your Online Date Offline

6 Tips on Taking Your Online Date Offline

6 tips on getting your online crush to meet you offline - and why sooner is better than later

I read a rather scathing article yesterday in the UK's Guardian newspaper on the pitfalls of online dating. As a long-term professional in the industry - and as someone who met their current SO online - I really wanted to write a positive post today about finding love on the 'net. Interestingly, the crux of this piece was the assertion that you can fall for the 'details' of someone's online persona - their interests, their physical apperance, their political beliefs - but those details don't tell you anything about the man/woman behind the profile.

Dating Disaster: My Date With A (Former) Suicide Girl
This, unfortunately, was not my date.

Dating Disaster: My Date With A (Former) Suicide Girl

For Ethan Fixell, a blind date went a little sideways when she was not quite what he pictured.

On a whim a few years ago, my friend Dave and I posted a YouTube video in which we invited women to double date us. In the months to follow, we would embark on over 200 double dates together, many of which would provide us with horror stories for our live comedy show. However, none were a bigger disappointment than one I experienced on my own.

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A blind date with an ex. That's double trouble.

Dating Disaster: Double-Dating My Ex

My friend's "really great" blind date turned out to be my ex-boyfriend.

First dates are a little dicey. Doubly so when it's a blind date. Make it a double date on top of it and you're talking about four times the dicey-ness. And, as far as dicey goes, it goes off the charts when it turns out that you know your friend's date. Know him very well.

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My date was drunk and actually pretty sad.

Dating Disaster: A Double Date Gets Double Drunk

Jamie Foxx would blame this awful date on the alcohol...

It was a classic set-up, my friend's boyfriend's friend needed a date. The two guys showed up and were already a little boozy. My friend and her boyfriend sneaked off and I was left with a drunk fella. And then his vomiting. I decided not to move to the second phase of the date and somehow I was the bad guy...

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6 Ways To Make Online Dating A Little Less Terrifying [EXPERT]

Set personal boundaries before your first date and other ways to ease the pain of online dating.

The idea of a first blind can be terrifying. You don't know what to expect; you worry about whether or not the person will like you ... not to mention whether or not you'll like him! How should you act? What should you wear? Where should you go? How can you make sure you're safe? I recommend setting your boundaries and expectations about dating before you even make the first contact. And be yourself. Be yourself even more on the first few dates than you are in your daily life.

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How To Have A Successful Blind Date

Blind dates can be nerve-wracking. Make the date go smoothly with these five tips!

A Marine is about to get the date of his lifetime. In a YouTube video, Sgt. Scott Moore invited Mila Kunis to attend the Marine Corps Ball in Greenville, North Carolina, on November 18 with him. After some prodding from Kunis' Friends With Benefits co-star Justin Timberlake, the Black Swan beauty agreed. While the event is still a few months away, we thought we'd share five tips to help make a blind date go a little more smoothly — whether you're in the public spotlight or not!

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Best Of The Web: Blind Dates & Going Braless

Plus Hall Pass, dumb dates and sex myths.

Reviews of Hall Pass. What to do with fading lust. A foot fetish. Dating while bra-less. Six tips for surviving a blind date. The dreaded "what are we to each other" conversation. 8 ways to turn on a lady. When your dumb date thinks you're dumb. Sex myths debunked. More benefits of sex. Why your number doesn't matter. Why you get in the same relationship every time. And 10 reasons you're not married.

The Search for Mr. Fabulous: Plentyoffish.com

The Search for Mr. Fabulous: Plentyoffish.com

As we look for Mr. Fabulous, a single girl has to try an online dating site every now and again.

Plentyoffish.com or Pof.com is a free online dating site. I was on it for about two and a half weeks. Anytime, I signed onto it, I was just inundated with emails from members that were quite eager to meet someone...anyone. That's the feeling I got from anyone on there that I emailed for awhile. Desperation. Clear and distinct, desperation. I am not saying everyone on there is, I mean, I was on there and I am anything but. However, the men I did get contacted by were desperate and it really began to border on creepy before I finally deleted my account entirely.

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Study: Men Are Attracted To Women Who Save Money

Is stinginess the new sexiness? Our two cents on how financial savvy affects romance.

Ladies, we've all heard that money can't buy you love; apparently, it can buy you sex appeal. The NY Daily News reports that 61 percent of men surveyed describe blind dates who save money as "sexy" and "smart."

Best Of The Web: First Dates & Craigslist

Best Of The Web: First Dates & Craigslist

Plus 18th Century Japanese sex manuals and spending the night.

A sexy sleepover checklist. An 18th century Japanese sex manual. First-date sex is good, no, it's not. A terrible blind date. When you catch your husband cruising Craigslist. States are cracking down on Craigslist adult services. Rachel Uchitel wants Tiger Woods back! Stop beating yourself up over your breakup. And what to do if your dude likes his bros too much.

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Dating Tip: 6 Ways To Avoid An Awkward Setup

A dating tip all singles can use: how to avoid being awkward when part of a setup.

Unfortunately, well-meaning friends are not top-notch matchmakers, as nuanced matchmaking requires either supreme intuition, practical training or serious practice on willing subjects. At some point during your season of being single, a friend (or your mom) will probably shove you toward some stranger at a party. Yeah, it's a little awkward, but rather than waste time feeling uncomfortable or shy, why not seize the opportunity to get to know someone new? Here are 6 steps to overcoming an awkward setup.