It's not news that sexual fluidity has been working its way into the mainstream. We all know the girl who experimented in college and then went back to guys, or the middle-aged woman who left her husband for some turquoise artisan in Taos named Deborah.

Both seem to be examples of the stronger sexual preference winning out in the end. But more and more, it's becoming acceptable for women to "hop the fence"—that is, to make the occasional gender switch-up in casual sex and in long-term relationships. I know, 'cause I'm one of 'em.

Although I'd always privately identified as bisexual, Read More

It is a truth universally acknowledged that Tila Tequila is gross. But until now we haven't had the technology to quantify her grossness; sure, you can talk all you want about viral loads, lip gloss applied with a trowel, and narcissistic Twitter updates taken far beyond their logical conclusions, but today we're attempting to define just what makes Tila so unrepentantly awful. Let's take a stroll down Icky Memory Lane, yes?

A Shot at Love

There's nothing wrong with a bisexual dating show, per se. We're all for people finding love, but when it comes in the form of one … Read More

When I was leaving for college, my high school friends predicted two things would occur once I fled the nest, away from my WASP-y parents: 1) I'd become a chain smoker to complete my poetry-reading, philosophy-pondering image, and 2) I'd get it on with girls. The Frisky: Documentary Suggests All Women Are Gay

After four years at hippie-dippy NYU, surprisingly, neither of these predictions came true. Alas, while I still have no interest whatsoever in getting lung cancer, I do still have an interest in hooking up with girls. Except these days, I'm pretty much convinced it's never going to happen. … Read More

Bobby Brown has jumped in front of the spotlight again. In a move that will surely sell more copies of his new tell-all book, Bobby Brown: The Truth, the Whole Truth and Nothing But..., the troubled singer digs up some old dirt on ex-wife Whitney Houston and smears it all over her. Interesting timing, considering that she's currently in the midst of a musical comeback. Getting Revenge On Your Ex: Is It Worth It?

Although Bobby doesn't claim that Whitney is gay or bisexual, he believes that she married him to kill gossip about … Read More

Details' November cover boy, Adam Lambert, recently sat down with the mag to talk about, among other things, the effect he has on his female fans. Even though Adam is openly gay and in a relationship, he finds all of the propositions, phone numbers, and bras thrown his way to be quite flattering. He also thinks that his popularity with women shows a significant change in attitudes toward homosexuality, saying, "I think it's beautiful. That's the way it should be. It shouldn't matter what a person's sexual preference is—it doesn't change their appeal."

Proving that … Read More

The Web is abuzz with Kanye West's embarrassing outburst on MTV's VMAs last night. He's always backing Jay-Z and Beyonce, but to take the mic from Taylor Swift during her acceptance speech? People are saying this time he's gone off the deep end.

Model and girlfriend of seven months Amber Rose, 26, accompanied Kanye, 32, to the show. They both dressed for the red carpet to end all red carpets like it was any other night out. He's getting slammed for his laid-back jeans and jacket, and she was dressed head-to-toe in a skintight jumpsuit inspired by … Read More

One of the first times I went on a date with a girl, she asked me, "Are you bi or gay?"

"Well, I'm still figuring that out," I told her.

Her response was: "I knew you were too good to be true." I then fell all over myself in an effort to explain to her that, although I was unsure about how to define my sexuality, I was definitely into girls, more so than I'm into guys. I am not and have never been bi-curious, bi for attention or bi only when men are around. Since then, I've figured out that I'm … Read More

The contestants on Britain's Got Talent often have something riveting to share about their love lives. Last spring, 48-year-old Susan Boyle told the world that she'd never been kissed. Susan Boyle To Get Her First Kiss?

And now the latest BGT sensation Danyl Johnson has revealed that he dates both men and women. Current.com reports that after giving "cheeky" winks to judges Danii Minogue and Cheryl Cole (the Posh Spice of the group Girls Aloud), Danyl said that he thinks all the Britian's Got Talent judges are attractive, including Simon Cowell.

Twenty-seven-year-old Danyl, a … Read More

Sometimes I forget things. I don't mean my keys or why I went into the kitchen, although I forget those too. I mean I forget bigger things. I forget to be thankful, to marvel, to bask in my life and the people I live it with.

This economy has driven my husband out on the road. He's working as a consultant. He leaves on Sunday afternoons and comes home on Friday nights.

When he was home, he did the grocery shopping and the cooking. He got our daughter up and out to school in the morning and off to bed at … Read More

Watching The Real World: Cancun makes me feel old for multiple reasons.

1. I am five years too old to actually be cast on the show.
2. It's so insanely vapid that I cannot actually watch a full episode, which says a lot considering I can stomach an entire marathon of Keeping Up With The Kardashians.
3. Every single girl in the cast seems to be bisexual.

Why does point three make me feel old? Well, I think I just missed the boat on the bisexuality trend. Hear me out. I believe sexuality is a spectrum and where we fall on that spectrum … Read More