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Bed Wars: Does Your Man Care Which Side He Sleeps On?

Recent research says if he's a good guy, he won't fight about which side to sleep on.

There's a huge difference between having sex with someone and being able to comfortably share the bed with them. It's a big step and in some cases involves a bit of compromise.

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Would You Take Your Halloween Costume Into The Bedroom?

Why we need Halloween, I don't know. For me, every Thursday is "dress up like a trampy plumber" day.

What do bobbing for apples and excessive skin have in common? Halloween. Yes, one of the oldest holidays, which was once about bonfires and costumes to ward off the dead, has evolved into something else: a time to get your slut on — yes, I just wrote that.

Does Size Really Matter? (Not JUST That)

Does Size Really Matter? (Not JUST That)

Would you dump a guy if he didn't "match up" to your standards?

One Size Fits All  In Italy when you go to buy a belt, it doesn't matter what your size is because every belt is made so that it can be cut down or expanded to "custom fit" whoever is going to wear it. The Italian makers go by the motto 'one size fits all'. If this can work for what goes "on" our bodies... it stands to reason we can employ the same creative motto for what goes "in" our bodies! When it comes to sex and size there is no end to the beliefs and myths that abound.

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The Secret Benefits Of Using A Vibrator [VIDEO]

Convince your mate to turn up the volume on your sex life with these sex toy tips.

Are you trying to convince your partner to bring a little extra buzz into your bedroom? Want to buy a vibrator but don't want to be caught dead in a sleezy sex shop?Are Sex Parties The New Vibrator? In this video, YouTango expert and sex coach Dr. Dorree Lynn knows that vibrators are just as essential in your sex life as glasses are for your eyesight. If you wouldn't go to work without your contacts, then don't get into bed without your toys!

3 Biggest Mistakes Women Make in Bed

3 Biggest Mistakes Women Make in Bed

Sex life in a rut? It may partially your fault. Here are three things women do that cool things off

Who doesn't need to spice up their bedroom routine every once in a while? You love your partner and assume he'll initiate sex, so it's all good, right? Not so fast! Did you ever think about what YOUR role is...what you could be doing to turn up the heat? We did, so we asked renowned sex expert and family therapist Dr. Jane Greer. She says women COMMONLY make THREE MISTAKES in the bedroom: Related: My Hubby Doesn't Want Sex. What Gives?

Why Men Should Love Not Fear Their Lady's Sex Toys

Why Men Should Love Not Fear Their Lady's Sex Toys

If your girlfriend or wife expresses interest in using or sex toy, or if you have found out that she has being using one, do not be alarmed. The use of a sex toy does not mean that she is not satisfied in the relationship. Nor does it mean that you should feel intimidated by her vibrator in any way. The use of sex toys has become more popular with women who are in relationships too. However, there have been times when a woman has returned her adult product because her husband or boyfriend was upset that she purchased one in the first place.

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How To Sex Up Your Bedroom

How to use aphrodisiac candle scents to ignite your own flames.

Turning your bedroom into a romantic haven depends on the type of atmosphere you want or the level of romance that you are trying to achieve. Whatever candle scents you decide to use will help set the mood that you are trying to create, and the possibilities are endless.

Tips on Buying a Sex Toy for Your Girlfriend or Significant Other

Tips on Buying a Sex Toy for Your Girlfriend or Significant Other

Your girlfriend or wife wants to experiment with a sex toy, which is great news for you. This excites you as this brings your relationship to a whole new level. The idea of watching her masturbate, or pleasuring her with the toy is quite a turn on for you. You begin to feel aroused just thinking about it. Your girlfriend gives you the challenge of choosing one for her, but you don't know what to get. There are so many adult toys on the market, that you start to feel overwhelmed just thinking about it. What if she hates it and never wants to try one again?

Achieve An Orgasm from Sexual Intercourse With These Tips

Achieve An Orgasm from Sexual Intercourse With These Tips

Research shows that less than about 40% of women can actually achieve orgasm during intercourse alone. This may give rise to sexual frustration and may have a negative impact on a relationship. If you are among women who fail to achieve orgasm during intercourse, you are definitely not alone. For those men who are able to make their female partners orgasm during sex, this does not mean you are not performing well or are at fault.

7 Things Men Love About Intimacy (Besides Sex)

7 Things Men Love About Intimacy (Besides Sex)

7 things about intimacy that men love (almost) as much as actual sex.

The rumors are true: Men love sex. It would be a mistake, however, to think that the ONLY thing we like about sex is the actual intercourse. Here's six other things about intimacy that we like (almost) as much: 1. Cuddling True. Guys like cuddling. It makes us feel big and strong and all "providey" to wrap a woman up in our arms. HowAboutWe: Why Sex Really Does Change Everything