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What Men Really Think About You in the Club

What Men Really Think About You in the Club

Men will consider sleeping with the trashy looking girl, but will never bring her home to mama.

Men and women usually go to the club for vastly different reasons. Men go to the club to find women, find women, and to find women. Women go to the club to sometimes find a man, but also to enjoy themselves by dancing and drinking the night away with friends. Men are reactionary creatures. If you want to know what we think about you at the club, all you need to do is evaluate one thing: Your activity at the club. Men read what women give us to read. It’s as simple as that.

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Good-bye, walks of shame. Hello, romantic breakfasts together!

How To Meet A Guy Who Wants More Than Sex -- At A Bar!

Not every guy at the bar is looking to get laid. Here are 7 ways to filter out sleazy men at bars.

It can happen. If you're at a bar packed with 300 people, not everybody in there is just looking to get laid. You're not, so there's your proof.

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What His Favorite Cocktail Says About Him

Look no further than the drink in a man's hand to discover clues about his personality.

Gin & tonic guys are "often the guys who get thrown out of the bar then appear a few weeks later as if nothing ever happened," says an expert. What's your guy's signature drink? Check out Glo's slideshow and find out what it says about him.

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Would You Use An Instant Date Rape Drug Test?

Scientists are developing a date rape test that tells women if their drink has been spiked.

A test for date rape drugs may soon be available so women can learn in real-time if their drinks have been spiked. All a boozer has to do is dip the test into the drink and the test tells you whether it's been roofied with either GHB or ketamine. The test works equally well on beer, cocktails, mocktails and soft drinks and allegedly has a 100 percent success rate. Date rape drug tests, created by Israeli scientists, should be commercially available in a year and a half.

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Would These Pick-Up Lines Work On You?

Three awful types of pick-up lines -- and four that work. Men, take note. Women, flirt away!

Have you heard ridiculous pick-up lines at a bar? If so, you're certainly not in the minority of women. Do you sometimes wish there were a mandatory Bar And Party Etiquette School where men are forced to learn that cheesy, crass comments just aren't going to fly? Well, this video from Fox News iMag is like a mini-etiquette school.

Beer Goggles Are Real!

Beer Goggles Are Real!

Scientists discover the mechanism behind beer goggles.

In news that provides us with yet another reason to curb our drinking, researchers at Roehampton University in London have figured out the mechanism behind beer goggles, and it seems we're in trouble. Not only are beer goggles real, but psychologists have been trying to figure out how they actually work for years, with most assuming that people just get a bit, well, less picky once they get sauced up. These brave scientists took their work out of the lab and into local bars to find out exactly what happens.

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8 Bad Bar Behaviors To Avoid

What not to do if you want to snag a date at the bar.

As a wise man once told me, there’s not much a woman can do to make herself completely unappealing to every guy at a bar.

The Number One Place To Meet Your Future Husband

The Number One Place To Meet Your Future Husband

Are single women more likely to meet their husbands at work, online or out at bars?

Are single women more likely to meet their husbands at work, online or out at bars? A recent Match.com study of 11,000 revealed that one in six surveyed met their wives or husbands online. Online dating trumped bars and clubs as the third most popular place to meet prospective dates, trailing only behind work/school (#1) and mutual friends (#2).

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Love Bytes: Reasons To Hate Valentine's Day

Elderly folks have great sex, the merits of dressing down for the bar and hating Valentine's Day.

Love Bytes: three must-click sex, dating and relationship links. Elderly folks have great sex, the merits of dressing down for the bar and hating Valentine's Day.

How Not To Hit On A Model

How Not To Hit On A Model

Fashion week pick-up disasters.

You deserve a few laughs—it's Friday! Head over to Nymag.com and read a hilarious-yet-cringe-inducing post by Neel Shah, "How Not To Hit On Models: A Primer." Unless you're easily offended, that is. Nymag.com sent Radar magazine's Neel—who is, in fact, eye candy but nevertheless gets his posts tagged under "douchebag diary"—over to a Prada party to see how badly he could crash and burn at picking-up the lovelies.