bad sex
Because it's not us... it's you.
We're not going to lie. Women are a fickle sort. When it comes to sex, some women like this, some women like that, and some women don't know what the hell they want. One thing we are sure of, though, is if you're bad in bed—at least, in our opinion. Maybe it's us. Maybe it's you. But if the sparks aren't flying when we're banging uglies, it could be because we think you don't have what it takes in the bedroom. What's up with that? The Frisky: 7 Sexual Partners That Don't (Have To) Count
You're A Two-Pump Chump. … Read More
The sex is bad, attempts to fix it aren't working, what should you do?
RH Reality Check (the website for "information and analysis for reproductive health") recently received the following letter from a reader named Jessica:
My boyfriend does not satisfy me sexually. He only lasts about ten minutes, he won't rub my clit because he doesn't want bodily fluids on his hand and he won't eat me out because he thinks it's nasty, but he thinks that I should give him head. We have been together two years and now it is really affecting me. What can I do?
The RH Reality Check advisor, Heather Corinna, tries her best to support Jessica by saying … Read More
When sizing up a potential lover, remember: you can never judge a book by its cover.
The old cliché warns against judging a book by its cover, and this is especially true when sizing up a lover. You just can't tell how sexually adventurous a person is by looking at them. Appearances don't always deceive; sometimes they just obscure the truth. And I've learned over the years that just because she looks Amish, doesn't mean she doesn't have a vibrator the size of a jackhammer under her bed. The Frisky: 21 Reasons Not To Have Sex, From A Former Prude
This fact of romance became apparent to me over the span of six months many … Read More
Mare Simone charges a pretty penny to bed your man and improve his skills. Worth it?
Let's say you and your signifcant other are having major sex problems. Perhaps he can't maintain an erection, finishes too quickly, or you never finish because he doesn't know what in God's name he's doing. You've got some kinks to work out. Big kinks. The Myth of the Male Orgasm
Could you ever imagine hiring a "sexual healer" to sharpen his skills? And when we say "sexual healer" we mean a woman who sleeps with him and offers him pointers. Think of it as hands-on consulting. Therapists: Virtual Worlds ‘Could Replace Real Relationships’
Mare Simone boasts … Read More
5 ways to gently tell your man how to please you in the bedroom.
Mike Alvear wrote a two-part series on how to tell a man or a woman he or she is bad in bed. For dudes, he suggests they repeatedly ask their ladies what she likes in bed in hopes she'll get the hint and ask what he likes. He also advises bringing up the conversation casually while reading the morning paper (not in bed and definitely not just after sex), and telling a woman what you want more of and not less of. For women, he makes the same suggestions, but advises them to have their conversation … Read More
Where not to have sex and why lube is not always the answer.
Love Bytes: Three must click dating, sex and relationship links.
10 Things Not To Say To A Film Guy. [Lemondrop]
Some guys' jobs just sound cool -- fighter pilot, bodyguard, film dude. Though the latter's day-to-day may be more mundane than Martin Scorsese's, it's easy to be impressed by a film snob, smelly "Clerks" T-shirt notwithstanding.
Places NOT To Have Sex. [The Frisky]
Sexy Time: Blame It On The L-L-L-Lube. [College Candy]
Good sex: a man explains his preferences.
I have never met a woman who thought she was bad in bed. I have known plenty of women who can rattle off an impromptu, critical dissertation on the carnal failings of most men. "He didn't get me off." "He treated my nipples like Xbox control sticks." "He came before his pants were off."
No, not all women are great in bed. Is the onus on dudes to break the bedsprings? I say no. It is both of our responsibilities to be the best lay possible. There are women who kick back Cleopatra-style and dare their men to please … Read More
This website is sort of like a cattle call for stranger than fiction booty calls.
Hey, remember that guy you slept with a while back who always only had a $5 bill and no wallet when the check came? What about that winner who thought condoms were just theoretical devices only used by actors on television?
Or how about the 35-year-old who yapped incessantly about his "hot crib in the city" but actually still lived with his parents?
Well, lucky for all of us who can relate, it's time for our big technological, Internet revenge! Muaaah!
While our friends will gladly pour us an extra glass of Merlot with a sympathetic nod and an ubiquitous "Oh, … Read More
We've all heard a bad pick up line—or ten–in our day. But in her new...
We've all heard a bad pick-up line—or ten–in our day. But in her new book How Not To Date, dating columnist Judy McGuire has amassed a list of amazing comments you never want to hear before, during or after heading to the sack with a lucky someone.
If you're dating, this list will serve as a poignant reminder to love the one you're with all the more. Single? You have our express permission to taze/mace/emasculate any guy who dares utter one of these:
10. "Your breasts are the reason I asked you out—well, that and you … Read More
The key to improving mediocre sex is getting to the root of the problem.
Everyone has dealbreakers.
They're the unalterable qualities in your prospective partner that eliminate the possibility of a happy relationship. Some are shallow: gnarly feet, freakishly small hands, a CD collection that's a little heavy on the Limp Bizkit. But others are critical indicators of compatibility: he doesn't want kids and you do. Or his deeply held religious convictions don’t mesh with your own.
But one potential dealbreaker defies categorization: bad sex. Is it a shallow concern that shouldn't matter if two people care about each other? Is it the ultimate indicator of compatibility because it's so primal? … Read More
